Ponder this ........... what role do you play here? What do you offer to the AMD community? How does what you say inpact the group as a whole? Do you set good examples? In what manner do you use your influence? Is it positive ? Negative?
I was reading along the list of blogs today noticing key players if you will , and thinking what they do with the power that they have .
Examples
BBW uses what she can in a positive manner, asking questions making you think , people sit up and pay attention ,
Shadow rarely uses hers, mostly just in passing ,she drops morsels of wisdom,all packaged up in funny stories.
Nacho uses hers to make us all come together in her stories, I look at each person she writes about ,I may not do that otherwise, she draws us together using a common bond.
Bentan uses by poking us ...... its a common sense thing, I can almost feel him tapping my temple somtimes .......... lol ...... its like think yall just think ...... 
Words of wit is trying to make us evolve...... most of the time his blogs are very indepth it looses some of us along the way ..... 
Lots of other key players here but my message is "Think before you type it ,think before you say it , lots of folks are looking at you , waiting on your opinion to form thier own ... " The power that you have can make or break someones day . Lets make em good ones huh?
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NachoBaby
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Aug 5 @ 7:40PM
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Just wait.. if I get my hands on some of that industrial duct tape.. I'm gonna stick us all together with real bonds! Thanks Mags... I luv you too baby.
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Premeir
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Aug 5 @ 7:40PM
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Very well said. I have many opinons on many of the blogs but choose only certain ones to reply to for a reason. I am open minded and appreciate what people say and think a while before responding. And I also know it's best not to take fist impressions or pre judge an individual. So have at it and see what happens
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ValentineGirl214
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Aug 5 @ 7:45PM
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I usually try to make people feel good. I like to make people think and laugh at the same time!!
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LilGriz
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Aug 5 @ 8:05PM
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Thanks Maggs.  Sometimes I (we) forget our audience is watching us closely and basing their opinion of us on what, how, and in what type of context we write blogs or comments.
Hey Nacho - I have some of that aluminum duct tape. Will that be good enough?
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maggiemae1969
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Aug 5 @ 8:20PM
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duct tape fixes ANYTHING .............(and yall know when I say it ,it sounds like duck tape.......)
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ShadowsAngel
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Aug 5 @ 8:23PM
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Shadow rarely uses hers, mostly just in passing ,she drops morsels of wisdom,all packaged up in funny stories.
  Shadow didn't know she had any. I write about whatever comes into my head at the time I sit down to write it. Sometimes it's a funny story, sometimes it's about DV or child abuse, sometimes it's poetry, sometimes it's erotica.  And very very occasionally I go ballistic because some *expeletive deleted* jackass has done something that thoroughly pissed me off and I am in the mood to disembowel them.
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CrazyCraveman
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Aug 5 @ 8:37PM
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What role do you play here?
I don't play any role here...
What do you offer to the AMD community?
Not a hell of a lot of anything, all I have to offer is...me.
How does what you say inpact the group as a whole?
Probably not a hell of a lot...guess you'd have to ask the peoples on here.
Do you set good examples?
Didn't know I was supposed to...but do I? Again, another question I can not answer. Guess you'd have to ask the peoples on here this as well.
In what manner do you use your influence?
I don't try to, nor do I wish to use my manner to influence others...I think and feel how I wish/want to. And if my way of thinking or feeling influences others, great...if not, that's great too.
Is it positive ? Negative?
And once again, you'd have to ask the peoples on here...as to whether or not I'm positive, or nagative.
I guess what I'm trying to say is...
I'm simply me, and I do not wish to be anyone else but me. Take me, leave me, love me, hate me...I don't honestly care.....Well it's not that I don't care, but I'm not going to worry about it...as I can't change anyone's mind.
I have NEVER been anything other than what I am, I've ALWAYS been true to myself. I REFUSE to be anyone or anything other than who I am to please anyone.
I heard this many years ago, and it fits me perfectly...
I'd rather be hated for who I am, than to be loved for who I am not!
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SxzeNewMe
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Aug 5 @ 8:41PM
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I try to write on a variety of topics...some things that have been burning in my mind (like today's blog) and were pushed into being written, others I write because I have a story to tell...sometimes I write in attempt to change the mood around here. When there's too much bitching going on I will often post something silly or naughty. Of course, I don't need an excuse to post something naughty...this is a sex site!
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loveableone
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Aug 5 @ 8:43PM
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Honestly, I dont know if i have an impact or influence, I do try to have as much positive fun on here and in my real life as I can!! Always trying to have FUN!!! 
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NightOfOld
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Aug 5 @ 9:00PM
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I do not concider myself a key play on AMD. My blogs propbably havre little impack or influense on anyone. I just try to be nice, and hopefullt put a smle on someone face with my blogs. You can not please or cater to everyone on her,
because we all think , talk, and act differently. So if I can bring a little cheer or
joy to someone. I'm happy with that.
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LilGriz
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Aug 5 @ 9:01PM
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Where Sxze, this is a sex site - where is the sex at? Been lookin around but haven't found anything yet. I suppose I need to get out of my cave sometime and head down to the river again.
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SxzeNewMe
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Aug 5 @ 9:10PM
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Sure, there's sex going on here...it's just that LOVEABLEONE is hogging it all! 
Sorry maggie... 
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ynot7769
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Aug 5 @ 9:26PM
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Ponder this ........... what role do you play here?
take up space......... 
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Ewe_Wish
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Aug 5 @ 9:33PM
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Ponder this ........... what role do you play here?
I believe I have chosen two roles to play here..................
...............to make people laugh
..............and to get Ynot to think of me as more than just another pretty face
take up space.........
Come on over baby we can ummmm take up some space together. 
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maggiemae1969
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Aug 5 @ 9:37PM
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now lets see to me Ynot is like a guidance councelor....... and just the other day someone said dayna was the Den mother....... so you see folks are watching....
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LilGriz
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Aug 5 @ 9:41PM
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Sorry Mags, but I just can't help myself. See what happens when I crawl out of my cave? 
Dayna, you have a third role - to get Ynot to PULL OVER! Maybe it will happen, even before monkeys start flying!
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Ewe_Wish
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Aug 5 @ 9:45PM
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Dayna, you have a third role - to get Ynot to PULL OVER! Hell that ain't gonna happen now if Ynot thinks I am a friggin' Den Mother--he will want me to make brownies or something..................anybody got any idea how to turn an oven on??
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newly_curious
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Aug 5 @ 9:53PM
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I guess the role that I play is one of the amused. I read what said or implied.When I do write I try to be honest and no ill words towards any one and try to reason why some do try and do agitate.
I do envy the ones that have that talent to put works to paper( or print) for some here do and do very well.
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ynot7769
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Aug 5 @ 9:57PM
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if Ynot thinks I am a friggin' Den Mother--he will want me to make brownies or something....
do NOT panic.........a) i don't eat sugar.............b) i'm no guidance counsler.......c)you aint no damn den mom
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maggiemae1969
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Aug 5 @ 10:01PM
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the role for Y and D were not supposed to be derogetory they are both leadership roles....... sorry if its offensive to ya , just an opinion .......
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HollyHummy
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Aug 5 @ 10:23PM
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I've never thought about my roll here to be honest...
But this is an excellent blog Maggie..
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loveableone
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Aug 5 @ 10:28PM
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Awww hell guys Im not hogging it! IM ALWAYS willing to share in the FUN!!!! SEX FOR EVERYONE!!!! 
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casuallylooking
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Aug 5 @ 11:29PM
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Do you set good examples? In what manner do you use your influence? Is it positive ? Negative]
I set a good example as a mother and a grandmother...I didn't realize that was a requirement to be on an adult sex site.......
I don't feel I set examples here, nor do I feel I have any influence. We're all adults here.Well supposed to be anyways. Some people just don't know how to act like it.
I am just who I am, and I won't pretend to be otherwise. Which may or may not be a good thing. I don't know.
And some days I'm just bitchy regardless of who's looking at me.
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ynot7769
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Aug 6 @ 12:13AM
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And some days I'm just bitchy regardless of who's looking at me.
omg...SAY ITS NOT SO
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ladybootscooter
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Aug 6 @ 12:43AM
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And some days I'm just bitchy regardless of who's looking at me. At least it's only some days for you Treas, I find more and more it's MOST days with me! And I too am not here as some powerful influence, just here to blow off some steam, have a good time now and then and keep in touch with friends I have made. If someone is watching me on a particularly bitchy day, at least they see how I am and are forewarned.
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PrincessKissy
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Aug 6 @ 1:17AM
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I'm just here for the stale donuts and burnt coffee
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casuallylooking
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Aug 6 @ 1:30AM
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omg...SAY ITS NOT SO It's okay Y, I would enjoy that pic no matter what mood I'm in. 
And morning coffee with you would probably keep me from being bitchy.
ouch, ouch ,ouch, Damn Dayna, let go of my hair. Where did you come from?
So much for that morning coffee....... LOL
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dumblonde
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Aug 6 @ 2:05AM
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i do nothing...
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padreroyalataol
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Aug 6 @ 2:19AM
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A kudo for your thoughts.
But I must take your advice and think before I comment.
Although I play no role with the "key players" I have no desire to make or break anyones day.
Richard
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Ewe_Wish
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Aug 6 @ 3:17AM
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Ah Treas.............Morning Coffee with Ynot you say...................hell why not, but it will be after I have him all night long...................
Oh sorry about the hair pulling 
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luv2liclst
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Aug 6 @ 4:04AM
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I'm the audience! good blog Mag...
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bentan
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Aug 6 @ 4:48AM
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* pokey pokey *
Well hells bells, you people are self-effacing to a fault. So it falls to me to lift some of you to some well-deserved limelight.
Night - one of the gentlest people I've ever known on here. You teach us the meaning of respect and consideration for others in your own quiet and understated way.
Ynot - a fiery avenger and defender of ladies on the surface but also a real introspective guy who at the most critical junctures dispenses wisdom that everyone else is missing.
Dayna - cemented her fame here as AMD's top narrator and creative writer. Your writing brings joy and laughter to many on here.
Holly - sets an example of kindness that is super-hard to follow. Anyone who has been observing the Natgoat saga will know that Holly never gave up being nice to the goat despite his stubborn douchebaggery.
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Ashinatrix
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Aug 6 @ 6:01AM
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I think Im the evil one.........
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borachone
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Aug 6 @ 7:43AM
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I'm just here as an observer Don't want to get the troll patrol on my ass so I try to stay low key . As for every body else I'll keep my opinions to myself it's safer for me that way
Good blog maggie
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ynot7769
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Aug 6 @ 9:33AM
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It's okay Y, I would enjoy that pic no matter what mood I'm in.
And morning coffee with you would probably keep me from being bitchy.
LOOK!! A NEW JOB FOR ME..........keepin you from being bitchy   and i get coffee too? hot dayummmm 
...................hell why not, but it will be after I have him all night long...................
umm apparently that coffee will be bout noonish....check my calandar or just call my sexratary
Ynot - a fiery avenger and defender of ladies on the surface but also a real introspective guy who at the most critical junctures dispenses wisdom that everyone else is missing.
i do all THIS?? hell now i'm tired from just READING IT.........yet alone DOING IT...........
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ladybootscooter
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Aug 6 @ 10:42AM
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or just call my sexratary  There you go again, more work, that's it, just pile more work on my already overworked ass!!! Now I have to schedule your coffee breaks too??? I have no benefits and that raise you promised.....it sure ain't happened!!!
*looks on desk for phone number of EEOC and sexetary's labor union, yeah we'll see about this shit!*
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Ewe_Wish
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Aug 6 @ 11:17AM
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There you go again, more work, that's it, just pile more work on my already overworked ass!!! Now I have to schedule your coffee breaks too??? Aw come on scooter, Give Treas a break....You dont want her showing up to early before Ynot and I are ummmmmmm thru with Morning Sex?
*looks on desk for phone number of EEOC and sexetary's labor union, yeah we'll see about this shit!*
Looking over contract between Ynot and LBS, reads in fine print, will do anything else boss asks, good, got her on a technicality
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ladybootscooter
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Aug 6 @ 12:58PM
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Looking over contract between Ynot and LBS, reads in fine print, will do anything else boss asks, good, got her on a technicality Fine, I'll schedule his coffee breaks, but I draw the line at washing his dirty underwear, costumes and capes, I'm sending those to Professor Borty!!!! 
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