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posted 8/2/2007 8:46:24 PM |
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It seeme to me that my life has gone off track more then a few times in the last couple of years.. Those of you that have known me for years from IRC and whatnot have seen me change.. Well I want to get parts of the old me off the shelf, blow the dust off and restart the engines.
I am once again single, and this time seperated from her for good.. I cannot go back into that relationship unless there are major changes, and I dont see that happening..
So back to dating.. Where do single girls hang out? LOL! Malls? Church? Grocery Store?
But what is it that I want in a woman?
A best friend, a lover.. Someone to share laughs and tears, good and bad times, watch a movie, go for a hike, take a walk, cuddle, let me rub her feet or massage her back.. I love the soft simple touch as you walk past, just to let that person know they are wanted .. Someone who share some of my intrests and views, but at the same time has thier own opinions and intrests and hobbies..
Someone whos not afraid to commit to a long term and make all the steps toward becomming a family unit if the feelings are there! I want someone who isnt afraid of cohabitation. Let me do the chores and help with the cooking, you balance the joint checking account..
I'll be out in the yard mowing and raking while you get a few sandwiches together and some lemonade for a lunch on the back deck.. Paint the picket fence while the kids run like maniacs in the yard...
Someone to cry with when the budget gets so tight that a second job is barely helping, phones ready to be cut off, and yet make each other smile with just a look or touch, or wise crack..
A woman who isn't ashamed of her body! Dress nice for when we need to but dress sexy and show a bit of skin when you can, so that your man (me) drools all day! Be a classy lady on the streets but a nymph behind closed doors.. Surprise me with some new teddy or camisole.. Heels and stockings will get you 10 free foot rubs! LOL She should feel free around me.. Tell me your fantasies, your sexual desires, your wants and needs!
Middle of the day, we're at the mall, whisper into my ear "I have plans for you tonight, and by the way, I have no panties on" Make my mind race all day!
Make your man want you.. I promiss to do all the same things in return!

Go out with ther girls! Dont ask if you can TELL ME hey next week! Flirt with the guys, hell bring numbers home to show me, and make me realise that I have a woman that other guys (or girls) want!

So in short, I am starting over and have dome my inner healing and thinking.. Now I am ready!
And yes, I understand that everyone at our age has baggage.. If've you made it past 30 without baggage, your probably someone elses baggage and just dont realise it.
Thinking about loosing the go-T (goat-tee) and have just the stash or maybe the eniter thing and sport the Mr. Clean look, what do ya'll think?

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Aug 2 @ 9:03PM  
Hon, you know I've always thought highly of you...I think that you will find what you're looking for when you stop looking. I guess I've never thought much of "finding love" and long-term relationships; seems to me, both develop over time.

Oh please, DON'T lose the goatee! I think it's sexy! And whatever you do, DON'T PUT A SHIRT ON!

Aug 2 @ 9:04PM  
Great blog hun!! I personally find goatees very attractive, but think you would look hot clean shaven too!

Aug 2 @ 9:14PM  
You never know where you may find her..................................she might be right under your nose.

Aug 2 @ 9:54PM  
::jumps up and runs under Tommy's nose::

Obvious enough yet? LoL

Good for you hun! Glad to hear it. At least you know what you want... that's half the battle right?

Aug 2 @ 11:07PM  
Well Tom like you I also know what I want and refuse to accept less. So sorry to say its not as easy as you think....Hell if you were closer I might even attempt to take a stab at your heart sounds to me like you have your head on pretty damn straight!

Aug 3 @ 3:28AM  
Ah tom, Nomi is right, do not lose the goatee, don't find the shirt and stay true to yourself and sexy as ever...... Love you my friend and want the very best for you....Kimmie.

Aug 3 @ 8:42AM  
You have a good core of online friends here obviously, that speaks well of you and is a key.
You asked where girls hang out. Well at the age of 37, that is kind of an invalid question because while girls hang out in public places, women don't. They spend time with their friends and family and do not go places to meet men, by and large.
Meeting the right woman online is certainly doable. But the old tried and true is meeting that person directly or indirectly through others you both know.
There is a lot to be said for the about saying about a man being judged by the company that he keeps.

Aug 3 @ 9:12AM  
girls hang out in public places, women don't

I think this is probably true; it's like asking "where does a 43 year old woman meet men?"...The bar is out, the grocery store - well, it worked once and I got a kid out of the deal - but no, not going there again! Church is an option, though you won't find me there (except when I go to visit my son...he makes me go to church to watch him "do his thing" :)...So, where do mature adults go to find other mature adult? HERE!

Tom...I'M HERE!!!

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