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Still a romantic at heart

posted 7/31/2007 9:10:44 PM |
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I've often wondered if people on adult chat sites are romantic? I've gotten a great many letters *especially since posting my kneeling shot-now in my private photos* that were fairly graphic, detailed, steamy hot, but left me cold.......I know a great many of the participants are here for sex only, and I have no issue with that at all.....a hot, torrid romp on a sultry evening is good for anyone! But after the heat index cools, what is left??? Two strangers that shared a very intimate, sometimes animal, moment? Perhaps. Do they even like each other? Do they know anything about their partner outside of their sexuality? Once they have quelled their thirst for each other and the flesh, will it ever be repeated or is it onto the next?????
Nothing turns me on more than a gentle caress of a hand on my cheek, gently pulling my lips slowly and seductively towards his, his body pressed firmly against mine so I can feel our heat mix together, feel his chest rise and fall against mine, his hand seductively on my hip and pressing into me. His nibbles on my collar bone and flicks of his tongue against my neck send shivers down my spine. His whispers softly caress my soul, reassuring me that there is much more to this than sex, that just being in the here and now is enough, just touching and caressing is making him happy and contented.
The knowing that if you say to your partner, "Baby, I need you to fuck me hard!", he will want to and will obligue you over and over again, not because it's sex, but because the hearts and souls are entwined and dancing with each other. It is only another form of making love to the other person. And when your eyes meet and lock in that moment before climax, your souls also climax. What you are feeling in that moment isn't about sex, it's about much, much more.

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Jul 31 @ 9:21PM  
It's funny... I want that connection. That special something. That intimate look from across the room that makes me melt. I want someone who can answer the question that Doc used to ask me without hesitation.

Will I ever find him? I don't know BUT I'm not settling for anything less.

hugssssssssssss sis

Jul 31 @ 9:23PM  
This is so true.

Jul 31 @ 9:26PM  
hugssssssssss sis....please don't ever settle for less...Doc will come haunt both of us if we do lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jul 31 @ 9:40PM  
Doc will come haunt both of us if we do

Ya, no shit. He'll haunt one for settling and the other for letting one of us settle.

Jul 31 @ 9:43PM  
I ax most of my blogs after about a week, there are only 12 up at the moment. I wrote eight or nine essays last year on some subjects that I leave up permanently. One of these, "The Fork in the Road, Turning Around, and Flying into the Unknown" deals with this issue.

Essentially, it has nothing to do with this site compared a conventional dating site, more that libidos sprint while hearts walk. The sex may be good, but the romance, well, you can't put something there that isn't and over time, infatuations evaporate.

BTW, I love the humor of the captions on your two pics!

Jul 31 @ 9:55PM  
Will I ever find him? I don't know BUT I'm not settling for anything less
I agree with both of you, I don't believe that will ever happen for me, but I too won't settle for less. So I will probably be known as the crazy old cat lady someday. (back off you guys i said SOMEDAY!! )


Jul 31 @ 10:29PM  
I believe that sex is not only enhanced but a continuation of the heart and mind. You can have good sex with someone your not involved with but its easily forgettable a few months down the line, to love and be loved--that is when the great passion brings the awesome sexual experiences that you will remember the rest of your life. I hope that I find that woman someday to share my heart.

Aug 1 @ 8:21AM  
I had that once many many years ago and HE had to fuck it up! Now I want it again and as you say shadow I won't settle for less!

Aug 1 @ 1:00PM  
I have to totally agree with that free.Every last part of it.....

Aug 1 @ 2:48PM  
very nice free

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