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posted 7/30/2007 10:27:57 AM |
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Maybe it is just me, but I come here and read the blogs, (which are terrific) but i hear all of these ladies complain about the e/mails they get that are rude and shallow i.e. wanna fuck. Well I try to be respectful if I am going to send someone an e/mail. I mean I know my limitations as far as finding a partner here, but I am also here to make some new friends,isnt everyone? Anyway, its is rare for me to get a responce. I guess I shouldn't complain, I know you ladies probibly get so many e/mails that you blow most of the others off. My question is , can you have too many friends?

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Jul 30 @ 11:54AM  
I have found that some of the best friendships i have formed on here is with people who get involved in the blogs. That means when I blog something and they comment on it that i respond with at least a thank you. That usually gets a conversation going and within a few emails you will be able to tell if this is someone you want to befriend or not. Thats not saying that I email with everyone on my friends list but i do some kind of interaction with them, i.e. goofing around in the blogs, at least once a week also i dont know since i havent posted on your blog if you dont have it set to autoapproval alot of times people just stop responding to your blogs or if they are like me i dont read blogs that I know are not set on autoapproval. I guess we will find out lol

Jul 30 @ 12:42PM  
It also depends on how you write your note?? Some men think stupid comments are cute and they really aren't. just a thought and yeah what L4F said post

Jul 30 @ 12:50PM  
I mostly compliment the person such as a great personality etc. they are alway sincere ..

Jul 30 @ 3:17PM  
In answer to your question, no I don't think of it so much as you can have too many friends. I will say that everyone on my friends list is just that, a friend. And every now and then I go through it and if there are a few on there that I haven't talked to in some time or they haven't been online in some time I delete them. You'll find many friend collectors on here, it's almost like a popularity contest, to see who can have the most! It seems that friend request have taken the place of what we had with winks to flirt or get someones attention. But as Dayna and Lisa said, participate in the blogs, hang out in the forum threads some, let folks see you for you, as in your thoughts, opinions, personality. Best of luck to you in your search!

Jul 30 @ 4:22PM  
Thanks lady for your comment .. Just to clarify ..i am not sending friend requests .. i would want to know the person 1st .. It was a matter of no responce to a respectful e/mails .. I sent one to you Lady and you did respond.. thank you .. hadnt seen you on line or would have liked to chat or something as i do respect your opinion .. thanks all for your comments .. will see you in future blogs

Jul 30 @ 5:58PM  
No, a person can't have too many friends. But I get to know someone before I even think about putting them on my friends list. And I go back and delete every now and then if we have lost contact. The people on my friends list are that, friends.
Quite a few women also don't reply because if you a free member you only get --I think-- 100 emails a day and then you can't send any more til the next day. Sometimes these go quickly.
Good luck, enjoy yourself and best wishes.........

Jul 30 @ 6:43PM  
Hey! I can piss off a person in a New York me. But I agree....making CRUDE REMAKRKS and COMMENTS in an initial contact can upset people. Sure this is a FUCK SITE....we all know this...but I don't see a lot of fucking going on. In fact I don't find it to much different than My-space or any of the others.

In thinking, women, being women....(unless they are absolute whores) would like to be approached in a "nice" manner...but so would the guys. (most anyway?)

Yeah, we all would like to make contact, met a sexy female, and have sex, or any other relationship you have in mind.

I first came on here strcitly "looking" and got a little offended. But I'm an OLD truck driver so I "adjusted" and I even have one or two "friends" who i enjoy chatting with! So, I can't bitch to loud. Most live to far away from me to really ever meet in person and thats ok, seems there aren't many from my area currently and thats OK too.

Sexyully speaking, I've had better "lick" on my-space, lol. Bigger audience lol.

But for what its worth, yeah, I think guys ought to kool out, be be nice.....and women not so hypoctirical.....look at the name of this site, lol.


Jul 31 @ 12:05PM  
You can never have too many friends... especially those with benifits .......

Sep 22 @ 9:52PM  
I can never have too many friends, hon!

Sep 22 @ 10:00PM  
I can never have too many friends, hon!

there ya go...bein nice n patient...seems to be working...and hey good short but to the point blog ...i just sorta stumbbled across it.....and hell i got lotsa friends on here....

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