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posted 7/29/2007 2:40:10 AM |
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  onions2006

I`m sorry but it seems to me that its so hard to find what we are all here for.Great companionship and fantastic,satisfying sex.Together.It seems to me that we are all letting the most prescious and beautiful times of our lives pass us by when we have all of the tools we need.We have our sexual experiences behind us we hopefully dont have any reservations in our communicating them to our signifigant others yet we are all here looking for it.Is it just me?I dont think so.I think we need to exchange phone numbers as soon as we are comfortable with someone we are attracted to.Granted,you may want to use a secure phone number in case they are some kind of whacko stalker.(Ive been there and yes there are women stalkers too) and make the move.Unless we are novelists,writers or really good at expressing ourselves in type,I cant see most of us being able to express what and who we really are and are after.I`m willing to bet that some of what I`ve ead wasnt intended to come across the way it did.We have trouble writing our emotions and feelings and to those of us who are reading our mails from someone,we tend to read into it on the positive side because its what we are wanting so badly.We cant read emotions,hear their voice and I think thats where we can go wrong.We want something so bad that we are disappointed when we finally go to the next step.Phone number exchanges.I think that if we did it earlier on that maybe we could hasten our searches and "weed out" those who dont "do it" for us and move on.No?I`m interested in hearing responces.Please include an example experience if you have one to share.Thanks everyone!

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shadow0257

Jul 29 @ 8:57AM  

Onions, I totally agree. I prefer talking to someone on the phone so that you know you are on the same wavelength. It definitely speeds up the 'getting to know you' process. I've been on-line since splitting up with my husband in 2004 and have only had one bad experience giving out my phone number. That one was scarry, but at least he did not live close to me. Good luck in your search for your special someone.
Lisa46

Jul 29 @ 11:14AM  
Well truthfully I've only met a handful of men on line. But there has only been a "special" one in my bed
onions2006

Jul 29 @ 10:55PM  
Thanx ladies.I appreciate the commentary.I think we jus need a cell number that cant be attatched to a name or number.I actually have SKYPE if your familiar.Its PC based.Needs a head set to work well but thats a safe way to begin and its free!
SxzeNewMe

Aug 18 @ 8:56AM  
I actually think I'm very good at expressing myself in writing - but then, I call myself a writer. If you read back through some of my blogs (this is a "renewed" screen name; my other blogs are under JJN4Fun - which I'm only leaving up because of the blogs), I think you'd find you can get a really good feel for who I am and what I'm about. And I'm all for talking off site and off line - I'm all for meeting, when there is an interest and attraction; but I will say it's a bit unnerving for a man to push that happening. I recently met a man online and after 2 emails he wanted to meet. We've now had about 6 emails between us and he pushes it every time. It makes me hesitant.

For me how long it takes to get to that point depends on the person and interactions. "Clicking" through emails can happen quickly or it can take some time, but once it does, you are right, taking things to the next level before long just makes sense. Funny thing; I've known this man here for a year now, we see each other every few weeks or so - sometimes longer - but we are in touch pretty much weekly; often several times. And always through email. We've had each other's numbers, but it's still more convenient to stay in touch through email. Go figure!

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