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posted 7/19/2007 10:55:16 AM |
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A friend of mine has a friend who wants to be way more than friends. They have known each other since she was 18 and he started about two years ago stating this to every one he sees and she is very uncomfortable being around him. Doesnt want to hurt him but doesnt lead him on either.short of killing what friendship is left what does she do? He has been there when others were not and the last thing she wants to do is hurt him anymore than she may already has. Is there a way to still have a friendship? Cause I am not seeing how there is.. Now for the opinion....I have a friend that was a really good one along time ago and to this day if he needs me I am there and he is here for me. Even though time has passed and he has a family now there is still a certain amount of flirt left there and I hope never goes away. The thought of him makes my stomache tingle.Is this normal to have these feelings for someone that you know he has for you but will never be again.. I have to smile just thinking about him....and sometimes I wish for a time machine to go back to some of the times we shared... I know that the friendship we share has lasted this long throughout all of his and my relationships . His gf's and wives have basicly said "I dont like you talking to her and wish you wouldnt".. So is it normal to get butterflies around him even after all these years and to know that they get them too ..........please say this feeling will ease up , I think......

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Jul 19 @ 2:46PM  
First of all, your girlfriend that has that guy friend that says stuff that makes her uncomfortable.... she needs to sit down with him.... and tell him the truth

he makes her uncomfortable with what he is saying..
she wants to keep him as a friend however he has to choose...

respect her feelings and keep those thoughts to himself or
lose her friendship.....

and if he is truly her friend, he will apologize and stop because when you love someone, even if you can't have them, you want them happy.

For yourself, is part of the thrill that your male friend is unavailable... and the same for him.... Always knowing that someone finds you sexy, keeps a person connected to their sexuality.... his gal friends can thank you for that.

However hearing that he has had wives and g/f perhaps he hasn't totally let go either... you both need to talk about this.... if you two are not destined to be together .. then you have love him enough to push him to let go what can never be... otherwise he is destined to be unhappy and I am certain that this is last thing that you want for him.

There is nothing with acknowledging that each of you have a tiny piece of each other's heart and that when need it is there to help you.... it will get each of you through tough times...

Will that feeling go away... be thankful... it's only a bit of tingling.... I have one special guy that it felt like I was climbing the walls and ceiling with my fingernails... I could barely think straight for months and months........ pounding heart.........the thought of him took my breath away.... he would take my breath away being 15 feet away from and I didn't know he was in the same room......

Yes the feeling will go away when you finally admit that the relationship is over.....and you will be still be left with a smile and a warm feeling in your heart.

Lady J

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