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posted 7/15/2007 10:51:13 PM |
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  tetons

Now i know that much of what i think, is subject to dispute. Never stopped me from thinking it, though.

Most of the time, when a new person arrives at AMD, they kinda lurk in the shadows for a time. Most Newbees look around, check things out. They want to see how things are handled, what the customs of the area are. You all know the progression here, as they gradually find their voice, and begin to interact.

When they finally get around to the first blog, any number of people will respond with encouragement and welcome them to the blogs. All's cool, and they come and go.

Once in awhile, as happened recently, we'll be inundated with a rash of new people. Some immediately jump in and stir things up. Attacking the very foundations of our little culture. Mostly they'll be trolls, slinging shit all over the place, messing with people's lives, just for sport. But it gives ynot and borty a chance to get some exercise, rounding up the trolls, and seeing to it that they die excruciating deaths. Food chain, i call it.

Now and then we'll have a new group of youngsters, hanging out with their bookbags and such. When i lived in Florida, i knew exactly what to call these people: Deputy Sherriff. Not a day goes by in fla, that you don't read in the paper about some MORON getting arrested for making a date with some underage kid, Who turns out to be a Deputy online Pretending to b a 15 yr. old girl, or 14 yr old boy. My point being that if you accept that a young looking 18 yr old belongs on an"Adult" site, the next thing you know, you're having Cyber sex with a minor. I"m just saying, here.

But once in awhile, someone comes on the site, who's been around Match dr. for awhile. Maybe they've been back and forth between the two sites for awhile, like so many others of us have. Maybe they like the freedom that the blogs here offer, as opposed to the uptight side. And maybe certain factors in their life have changed, so as to afford them more free time than they wanted. So they come in blogging; they're familiar with the styles and vernacular, and they just have at it.

And the fun level increased. Fancy that. Free spirited blogs. People having fun. What should be seen as a welcome addition to the site. And of course, some toes got stepped on, whether real or imagined. Certainly unintentionally.

My opinion here; the classy thing to do, would be to express your displeasures in private e mails. Then any misunderstandings could be worked out, without a big ole blog style war. Course, that's probably not as much fun, but hey: What do i know?

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maggiemae1969

Jul 15 @ 11:04PM  
I love meanderings ...... you use such fancy words........
ynot7769

Jul 16 @ 12:26AM  
good blog...interesting........hmmm ..
What should be seen as a welcome addition to the site. And of course, some toes got stepped on, whether real or imagined. Certainly unintentionally.

My opinion here; the classy thing to do, would be to express your displeasures in private e mails. Then any misunderstandings could be worked out, without a big ole blog style war. Course, that's probably not as much fun, but hey: What do i know?

i think you know plenty.......hmm now ..to the reasl question at hand... why not handle things in private? hmmmm *shhh still thinkin on this one* ok ..i think most type what their first thoughts are......so IF they veiw what is considerd a wrong or no no they point it out .....and in most cases gently .........now to have to repeat it over n over? might get a bit pushier.......hell we had someone here...*still here under diff name?* who did a blog ON ME........never realy spoke to me....no playing in the forums...nothing...couple of passing comments in a few blogs...now ..there were lots of comments ........mostly bout RESPECT ............NOTHING happend...........'she' made no reply nor a retractoin..........shit i didnt' get an appology...oh thats right i forgot i dont need one as i dont give a shit .........but i THINK i'm close....yeah thats it....they just type what they thinkg to steer someone in the right direction ok thats my final answer............did i win the million
Fckmhrdtnght

Jul 16 @ 12:39AM  


Ewe_Wish

Jul 16 @ 1:02AM  
Well, I dont know how tortured your soul is turk, but I for one have always appreciated your opinion, whether I agreed with it or not. Of course, That's what is nice about this place its somewhere we can speak our opinions. Now, you know for a fact, that i especially appreciate you, you warned me one night of a person who was a stalker in real life, that was talking to me. I will always appreciate that. But blogging, you take your chance, of ppl agreeing or disagreeing with you. I write alot of blogs,tho i have been kinda silent since my review other than a couple jokes. I know what you are referring to in your blog, and i will not apologize. My intention was not to offend, but if it was taken that way, so be it. I have taken critism myself on some of my blogs, rightfully so. But as I have said, its the chance you take when you put up a blog. It's Like the wanna fuck blogs, some of us get tired of the same useless blogs and we do tend to ridicule those who post wanna fucks. But again I appreciate your time in writing this blog.
borty293

Jul 16 @ 3:40AM  
Hey ...didn't realize you are such a prolific writter...congrats on a well written blog and I'm not just saying that cause you mentioned me....yes I agree that some of these disaggreements would be better served in private emails....although its sometimes fun to read a good debate if its civil and both participants make good points....the I'm a pimp and your my whores is getting somewhat lame...I'm giving your blog three and a kudo...don't take any prisoners Turk.
Pudge2you

Jul 16 @ 10:23AM  
stop making sense!!!!
JJN4Fun

Jul 17 @ 8:33AM  
Yeah, even when I wasn't on and read the blogs, I was sometimes dismayed when I saw someone new being slammed for voicing an opinion...but that's been happening for a while - not something new, really. I imagine that, since I've not been around long, some people are looking at me/my blog and thinking "just who the hell does this bitch think she is???" But you know, I don't think it matters. EVERYONE has the right to post a blog with their opinions, thoughts, observations, etc. I don't like the idea or feeling that it's only okay to do that if you know people here. I knew next to no one when I first started blogging - and my first blog was a rant of sorts - and had people not been kind and welcoming, I wouldn't have stuck around. I've noticed that the # of people online at any given time is way down from when I was last here and active. What does that say? I dunno, it says a lot to me.

I'm rambling... Good blog, sweetie! You know where to find me! *muah!*

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