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Misconception posted 7/15/2007 9:27:31 PM | 1 kudo what's this?     report abuse   maggiemae1969 I think when people dont understand about bdsm at ALL, what the common misconception is "how you speak to the submissive" and for the females "how you speak to your Master" ....... bdsm is not degrading .........its not meant to cause you mental pain , well unless you do something purposeful........ I saw a comment on a blog today and thought another "idiot", mind your manners people ........ Copy & paste to friend: (Click inside box; Ctrl + C to copy; Ctrl + V to paste)

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CrazyCraveman	Jul 15 @ 9:32PM
	Mags...I know you and I have spoken about the Master/slave or the Dom/sub thing a time or two. As you were, and perhaps you still are very interested in the lifestyle...and at 1st, you knew nothing. Sorry Mags, not saying that to be rude, mean, or hurtful...just saying how I feel and felt... However, you're learning... Not that they're worth shit, and I RARELY if ever give them out...but here's a kudo for your blog...
maggiemae1969	Jul 15 @ 9:38PM
	I readily admit to be GREEN and still am just a lighter shade.....
ruredy150	Jul 15 @ 9:48PM
	Most people I'm afraid don't understand it, but see it as some perverted subculture. As long as no one is harmed I say you should explore your desires. Isn't that what life is really about?
maggiemae1969	Jul 15 @ 9:53PM
	its not lack of understanding , its lack of manners that bothers me
ladybootscooter	Jul 15 @ 9:53PM
	As long as no one is harmed I say you should explore your desires. Isn't that what life is really about? Is this how your wife feels about you being here too????
your_lover38	Jul 15 @ 10:30PM
	I explore my desires although I don't know if they would be in this category...hey I am totally ignorant of the lifestyle to be honest...but it is intriguing to me nonetheless.
tetons	Jul 15 @ 11:19PM
	while i'm aware of my control issues, i'm scared shitless of relinquishing control to another..
harborlights	Jul 16 @ 5:35AM
	Let's explore it together!
borty293	Jul 16 @ 5:48AM
	I think mutual respect is the key...
ruredy150	Jul 16 @ 9:28AM
	Is this how your wife feels about you being here too???? That's right!
maggiemae1969	Jul 16 @ 4:13PM
	think somewhere along the line, the point was lost .... "THINK before you speak, if you dont want me to say it to you , then zip the lip."