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posted 7/13/2007 2:27:07 AM |
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  totallytaboo

I'm always curious when people expect so much out of me but offer little in return. Like emails where guys want me to send them erotica that I write specifically for them. Sorry, I don't have the time, I don't do that for people without a picture, and I certainly won't do that after the first time you've ever emailed me. I love this site, but it's lacking in maturity big time. I'm barely an adult myself but some of the emails I get, ugh. I know, I'm complaining again, so I'll stop.

I've stopped being nice in return, I don't even bother to respond to emails I don't like. It's easy to become jaded. I was supposed to meet a guy just this last week but he didn't call. I reckon either a.) his profile was fake b.) he was married c.) he wasn't interested. (I'd rather believe anything other than c).. I can't say it's an often thing to be stood up, but it's helped me to screen potential dates a little bit better. I've only stood up a guy once, but I had my reasons. Maybe, people enjoy the fantasy of being with someone rather than actually being with them. Are dreams better than reality? Chances are we wouldn't have gotten on well, I would have been bored, and he would have been cheap. lol. Why can't I meet someone who makes me feel interesting? Frankly...... it really sucks. I feel like I can't connect with people very well anymore. My friends don't seem to get me, and my roommates are starting to feel like strangers. I am surrounded by people all the time but intellectually I feel all alone. Why are we all made so different? Forgive my melancholy tone, I'm listening to Kate Rusby and she ruins me every time. Maybe. that just happens when you're busy. You start to lose touch, and I've lost touch big time. I'm thinking about not returning to school in the fall, however an incredibly STUPID decision it would be. Usually I can balance everything really well, but I'm getting tired. I can either do 3 things. Stay in school, go back to Alaska, or join the peace corps. I'd never join the military, nothing against patriotism, but that's just SOOOOOO not me. I'm too opinionated, too liberal for that. I actually took this politics test and it said I was a fascist. But, n/m about that. My birthday is coming up soon. Yay!

I have been having fun though, every night after work I go out with my friends I work with and we have a few drinks. It gives me an excuse to put on make up and high heels. One thing that's good in this city is all the clubs, course I'm usually always the worst dancer in a room full of about 300 people, so it can be ego crushing. lol.

Anyway, that's all that's new.

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bentan

Jul 13 @ 2:38AM  
Hey TT ... if it means anything to you ... and if you know anything about me I'm not being a suck-up ... I think you are nice enough as you are.
TattooedRawkStar

Jul 13 @ 2:40AM  
Will you write me a personal, erotic email? Since this isn't technically an email, it wouldn't be like doing it after the first email... Plus, I have pictures...

Just kidding. You're fucking HAWT. And intelligent. RawkStar LIKE.
100tongues

Jul 13 @ 2:48AM  
Listen it sounds to me that you are very frustrated. A woman that looks like you should'nt be. Its that simple. You spend an afternoon with me, and i guarentee the land of confusion you are in will become very clear and easy. {email address removed}
Ewe_Wish

Jul 13 @ 2:57AM  
Listen it sounds to me that you are very frustrated. A woman that looks like you should'nt be. Its that simple. You spend an afternoon with me, and i guarentee the land of confusion you are in will become very clear and easy. {email address removed}
God, please let us know if that line worked on you
mdew22

Jul 13 @ 3:06AM  
OH YES. PLEASE TELL USE IF IT WORKS ON YOU. LMAO.
pleased2meetu

Jul 13 @ 3:23AM  
to liberal for that. ....took this politics test.....it said i was a facist
mdew22

Jul 13 @ 3:24AM  
ok. to be honest with you. your only 20 years old. every one is bored at 20. they want every thing right now and it had better be the best. after i read most of your profile (i got bored with it) your to stuck on your self. your more worried about your boobs (that will be hanging below your waist in 10 years) than your education that will be with you the rest of your life. you are very pretty but that wont get you threw life. you seem to like to drink a lot too. not good at your age. well i know by now that you dontl like me at all. but i just wanted to tell you the trueth ok. good luck with your life and may it be a very happy one.
ynot7769

Jul 13 @ 10:30AM  
just incase i fuck it up ......HAPPY BIRTHDAY SOON
tetons

Jul 13 @ 11:38AM  
what I know (sorta) about you is you're straightforward, honest, and upfront. all good qualities. the idiots you might attract on here with that type of personality, can get rather tiring ( as evidenced by some of the preceeding comments).
sounds like you need a vacation, a temporary change of scenery. you should value your education, but there's nothing wrong with taking a little time off for the peace corps, or something. just enjoy your life, and enjoy yourself. you know the world is bigger than AMD.
lovablejon67

Jul 13 @ 4:09PM  
i too am the worst dancer, probably in the world...but i still go out there! kudos to you for being YOU....hope things work out for you and the bordem of work, school, and life....fires up a bit!
tabuthekat

Jul 13 @ 4:12PM  
Your right, you have no obligation at all to be nice to any man that emails you that does not read your entire profile. When a person joins this or any other site and is specific in what they are looking for and then gets an email from an idiot then why be nice to him. I know we women get tons more email than the men and I am tired of the idiots that do not read or just do not respect me. So hell no, I'm not nice to them
darthmaul

Jul 13 @ 4:42PM  
Maybe, people enjoy the fantasy of being with someone rather than actually being with them. Are dreams better than reality?

Sometimes, the wanting is more pleasing than the having. It is illogical, but it is often true.

I'm listening to Kate Rusby and she ruins me every time.

Try some Johnny Cash. No, I'm serious. I got turned on to him by a punk chick I know. She insisted that I take a listen.

I actually took this politics test and it said I was a fascist.

From the outside looking in, the difference between a National Socialist and a Marxist is only matter of degree, even if the two would oppose each other vehemently and claim to have no commonality.

I'm usually always the worst dancer in a room full of about 300 people, so it can be ego crushing. lol.

Welcome to my life...

totallytaboo

Jul 14 @ 2:05AM  
Aw thank you guys. :) If there's anything here, it's constant support from ya'll for the fuck ups like me. And I'm not even going to respond to a few of the comments, but the lines aren't working. lol!

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