Does anybody else feel they just don't have the energy to invest more time..........or is it just me!! I haven't been here all that long but when I stop to think of the months that you invest and talk with someone and nothing comes of it. How do you find the energy to keep going on! This has happened twice to me, and in total almost a year. Sometimes when someone wants to talk it's like god how do I do it? Do I really want to do it? Not really sure anymore.
Think I may be headed that way again, that's the sad part. I know nothing will ever come of this either, we are truely in two different leagues, don't get me wrong I know I am a good person, kind, honest, sincere and all those good things, but sometimes deep down you just know there is no way in heck!! We come from two opposite ends of the spectrum.
But on a lighter note, what I wouldn't do to have just one night........JUST ONE!!
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bentan
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Jul 9 @ 5:58PM
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(((huggzz))) Zena. 
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max49
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Jul 9 @ 6:03PM
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Even more hugs for zena. 
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B_A_B
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Jul 9 @ 6:35PM
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Never give up dear... if you do, you might as well stop living.
Hope a big girlfriend hugggg would help
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casuallylooking
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Jul 9 @ 6:49PM
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Zena, sometimes the opposite ends of the spectrum isn't always a bad thing. You can learn form each other..... I had this very talk the other day about my own life. Decided to try anyways.
You deserve your prince charming and everything he has to offer a wonderful woman. Good luck.........
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wtxman
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Jul 9 @ 7:00PM
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Thats exactly how I feel now,just hang in there,hopefully things will get better.
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ValentineGirl214
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Jul 9 @ 7:06PM
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I know exactly how you feel!!! But you can't give up!!!
And I hope you get that one Night with Dom!!! 
Then come back and tell us all about it!!!
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Lisa46
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Jul 9 @ 7:39PM
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keep up sweetie he may be the one! Big huggs Zena!!! oh kiss to
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slohand_47
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Jul 9 @ 8:31PM
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IF you are talking for months and not meeting (it's a little unclear on that) then I would guess you are talking long distance???
Been there, did that, gave it up for good. It's just too damn hard to maintain a level of interest when you are a days drive, or more apart. Yes, I know it's not easy, but find someone who is close enough that you can drive to in less than 2 hours. I "dated" a gal who was a 2 hour flight away. 3 or 4 visits a year just does not cut it.
Want to get your energy back up...... put yourself in this scenario..... you just got off work.... youre walking to your car, and you think...... Hey, I can be at "his" house in 45 min....... I'll call him up and see if he wants to grab a pizza and a video. Yep, works wonders.
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slohand_47
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Jul 9 @ 8:35PM
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IF you are talking for months and not meeting (it's a little unclear on that) then I would guess you are talking long distance???
Been there, did that, gave it up for good. It's just too damn hard to maintain a level of interest when you are a days drive, or more apart. Yes, I know it's not easy, but find someone who is close enough that you can drive to in less than 2 hours. I "dated" a gal who was a 2 hour flight away. 3 or 4 visits a year just does not cut it.
Want to get your energy back up...... put yourself in this scenario..... you just got off work.... youre walking to your car, and you think...... Hey, I can be at "his" house in 45 min....... I'll call him up and see if he wants to grab a pizza and a video. Yep, works wonders.
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slohand_47
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Jul 9 @ 8:40PM
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NOT MY FAULT this went twice. The first try I got a message that said there was a system error and to hit the back button and re-try.
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borachone
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Jul 9 @ 8:53PM
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Hug for Zena hang in there baby when it's right you'll know and not care how long it takes
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BigFlirt
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Jul 9 @ 9:46PM
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Loveyoulongtime2
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Jul 9 @ 10:40PM
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I know how you feel.  I have been emailing someone in my town on another site. She seems to be very compatible, but it seems I can't get excited about meeting her. I just email her once a day, even if she's online I just log off.
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pucee4me
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Jul 9 @ 10:49PM
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I still want you zena..........
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MEMEME69247
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Jul 10 @ 12:15AM
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Zena,,,,even if he is not the one,,,and nothing comes out of it,,,,,except the happiness he has given you for the time being....what would you have been doing if you had not been talking with this gentleman,,,,,I live for the day,,,,because what happens if the next day,,,,that person is gone,,,or something happens to you...at least you were happy for that day....then again he might be the one and you let him slip through your fingers....Live life to the fullest always,,,Enjoy Zena,,,,you will never get that Energy Back but you can always look back on good memories,,,We hope....that is all we can do,,,is invest the time in the person you are interested in...only time will tell....and of course just my opinion....
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ladybootscooter
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Jul 10 @ 12:30AM
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It's just too damn hard to maintain a level of interest when you are a days drive, or more apart. Damn I'm glad you didn't convince everyone of your philosophy as it were on the way "love" should be!! In your own profile you state that you joined this site to find sex and it hasn't happened, so what, now you assume it's not happening for anyone else? Hmmm, I know of several couples that not only met on here, living great far distances apart but are now together and quite happy!! Yes, I'm talking even thousands of miles apart, now either living together or getting married and moving across the country, even the world in some cases to be together. So you can't really say that all long distance relationships don't work, they just didn't work for you.
Hang in there Zena, the right one is out there, just gotta have faith!! 
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HollyHummy
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Jul 10 @ 12:41AM
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I know what you mean...
Especially when you know it's not going anywhere nor is it likely to.
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slohand_47
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Jul 10 @ 2:18AM
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Didn't mean to twist your spurs LB. I did NOT say ALL long distance romances will not work. I simply said I did it and found it too difficult. I met a lady from VA, fell in love, and would gladly have moved out there. It didn't work out and distance was a major consideration.
Did I mention Love in my post either? Nope. We are talking energy to get excited about dating again. So, I told Zena (NOT you) what worked for me.
I'm really not sure just what I did to provoke you. Bentan had a really good blog earlier tonight on opinions. Maybe you should read it. You're entitled to yours, and I'm entitled to mine, but I'm not going to jump your shit if I don't agree with you and I really don't appreciate you jumping me in open forum for comments that were not directed to you.
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featherone
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Jul 10 @ 10:55AM
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Zwna dont make me cum there and take you out bar hopping, cause u might not ever want to come on the net if i did,, :)girl, go out and meet a guy, canada are full of wild and crazy men just waiting for you, so what r u waiting for>????? jan, i miss ya girl.
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ajay_t43
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Sep 6 @ 4:49AM
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you have it lucky.
I'm STILL a virgin :(.
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matt_in_the_hat
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Nov 21 @ 3:17PM
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Zena - how do you not know until you try. What do you mean 'opposite ends of the spectrum?'
My philosphy is leave no stone unturned and not to worry if their in your league or not. If your a good person and think with your heart and conscious you will be rewarded in the long run.
You can only take life one day at a time. Your best bet is to go with what your heart/intuition/conscious tells you to do. Even if it does not work out, do not worry. Do not feel like you have 'wasted' your time. Each experience:
--makes you stronger
--makes you wiser
--makes you happier because it is certainly better than nothing right.
--gives you valuable experience because one day things will work out. But I am well aware that we are not promised tomorrow, but Like I said before leave no stone unturned. By gosh, I live my life even if it don't works out. Just remember there are those out there that WISH they could have half of what you do. That is the way I was raised to not take anything or anyone for granted and you will be happy.
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