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posted 7/9/2007 1:58:52 AM |
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I know that sometimes, just about at that point of an earth shatttering orgasm some of us women tend to get just a little carried away with our finger nails. Sometimes to the point of drawing a trickle of blood without actually even realizing it. Until we feel you flinch or stiffen up-----no pun intended.
I know a lot of guys enjoy it and then while in a hot shower the sting is there as a reminder of how it happened. And it brings back a smile.
Some guys don't like the scratch marks or the 'pain' to go with such an action..
So guys, where do you stand on this issue? Enjoy it or not?
Ladies, do you ever leave those little intense marks?

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NightOfOld

Jul 9 @ 2:09AM  

Although I could put up with it to please the woman.
Which is the important thing,..pleasing her. I believe
sex was meant to be pleasureable to both parties.

I will do what it takes to please her, and not complain.
Dominus

Jul 9 @ 2:13AM  
One of the loves of my life, Maggie, had just gotten herself a new pair of those vampire fangs. The ones that fit over the incisors like caps. She was quite pleased with them and she didn't tell me that she had them in her mouth when she bit me. I gave her a disapproving look, but she's one of those bratty bottoms, so in order to try to prove the dom in me wrong she bit hard enough for them to sink in and draw blood. So she quickly found herself picked up and hurled across the room. She lay there in shock for a moment until the lust sank in. She was a wild thing, but she loved a man that could actually control her. We fucked like beasts that night.

I'd give you the details, but that wasn't part of your question.
Ewe_Wish

Jul 9 @ 2:14AM  
More important how the hell did you do that to david with phone sex??

Ewe_Wish

Jul 9 @ 2:17AM  
Looking sneaks back in........Psssst Dominus, I ummmm wouldn't mind hearing the details.
wtxman

Jul 9 @ 2:20AM  
Hint: I love the song "crazy bitch"
BigFlirt

Jul 9 @ 2:31AM  
My self i am not into haveing my back sliced and diced by fingernails. Thank god for handcuffs....
Ewe_Wish

Jul 9 @ 2:40AM  
Ummmmmmmmm BF..........




tori_bbw

Jul 9 @ 2:49AM  
sadly ive never met a man that made me lose my mind enough to do that, oh well im still looking
aberlour

Jul 9 @ 4:22AM  
That and a little scratch under my chin will keep me purring...
ValentineGirl214

Jul 9 @ 6:03AM  
My nails are long, but I have never drawn blood. Maybe a few scratch marks and never on purpose. Sometimes I don't even realize it, nor does he until after the deed is done.

I'd like to hear Dom's Details Too!!!! That's the Nasty In Me!!
heretohelpyou202

Jul 9 @ 7:04AM  
We don't really care as long as we are getting laid.
andyinramona

Jul 9 @ 7:12AM  
The woman that became my 2nd. wife and I had just been together for the first time for sex . The next day I went to my mothers house to do some yard work and as I was mowing her yard, I took off my shirt. When mom came out to bring me some beer she asked me if I had been in a fight with a cat!! She said it looked like wild games of tic-tac-toe had been played on my back with spurs!! All Xs !! I wondered why the sweat was stinging on my back and butt!! I still don't mind the encouraging nails !
casuallylooking

Jul 9 @ 7:59AM  
I'd give you the details, but that wasn't part of your question

It wasn't? Oh, silly me. I could add that in just for you, Dom.
casuallylooking

Jul 9 @ 8:14AM  
More important how the hell did you do that to david with phone sex??


Dayna, I told you, I'm not giving out phone sex details. Call me, we'll talk LMAO
A quick secret, I've never drawn blood. But I used to have a friend that usually did. Her poor husbands back always looked like he slept in a rose bush.
BuddhaDon

Jul 9 @ 8:45AM  
Women have made remarks to me about the marks on my back and shoulders . My problem is I have such a high pain threshold...
ladybootscooter

Jul 9 @ 8:48AM  
I might have scarred a few backs in my lifetime!!
Ewe_Wish

Jul 9 @ 8:50AM  
Dayna, I told you, I'm not giving out phone sex details. Call me, we'll talk
Damn Treas How many times do I have to tell You.......I am not going to have phone sex with you!!!!
Ewe_Wish

Jul 9 @ 8:58AM  
sadly ive never met a man that made me lose my mind enough to do that, oh well im still looking
You are? I thought I was Looking, and you were Tori Hmmmmmmm
casuallylooking

Jul 9 @ 9:14AM  
.......I am not going to have phone sex with you!!!!

LMAO, that's quite alright, I kinda have my hands full and Uhhh quite busy.
frostycharlie69

Jul 9 @ 9:20AM  
I think I'd enjoy it just about as much as a kick in the crotch. Which I don't enjoy.
It's all very well, but I'd rather be intact at the end of a session. No good having a sex marathon and coming out looking like a whipped pirate.
Ewe_Wish

Jul 9 @ 9:20AM  
I kinda have my hands full and Uhhh quite busy.
Ewwwww hands full Treas That was more information than any of us needed.
casuallylooking

Jul 9 @ 9:32AM  
That was more information than any of us needed

That was NOT what I meant, and you know it....... Smartass!! Hey, Dom was the only one allowed to add details..... LMAO
You never did answer the initial question, Dayna.
Ewe_Wish

Jul 9 @ 9:42AM  
You never did answer the initial question, Dayna.
Original question? Oh I know what your talking about and as i told you yesterday I will not have a 3-some phone sex with you and david. just not my thing Sorry!!
ynot7769

Jul 9 @ 9:43AM  
can't remember where i read it ....but basicly said a woman scratching to draw blood was fakin........but hey what do i know? i sorta take too much pain personal....lol....now.....the scratchin is just finee....just dont need to draw blood...........and ...... there's still time to try it again
Lisa46

Jul 9 @ 10:18AM  
I must admit I've never found one that made me lose my mind either Don't get me wrong good sex oh yeah mind boggling NOPE!!!! maybe someday?
CrazyCraveman

Jul 9 @ 10:24AM  
Enjoy it? NO!...I LOVE IT!!

Dig those nails into my back, or my ass! PLEASE!! And draw blood while you're at it! PLEASE!!

I have a few scars from it, on my ass and back. Hell, I even have a few on my arms...

I'm still waiting for a woman to come along and scratch my chest, just like on Ted Nugent's album cover Cat Scratch Fever
pervertedpapa

Jul 9 @ 10:28AM  
LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE IT

To me, the scratching, even clawing, means I've sent you over the edge - that you're being completely animalistic and are enveloped in pleasure and lovemaking.

Scars? - bring 'em on! Badges of honor, I call them!
casuallylooking

Jul 9 @ 11:40AM  
I will not have a 3-some phone sex

Well we know it wasn't me that you were talking to . I Do NOT share!!

As far as the remarks about drawing blood, I didn't mean that all women do it. I said sometimes and some women, get to that point.Just wondered where people stand on it and where you draw that line.

At this point in my life, there has only been one man that I have ever left any nail marks on. Couldn't help myself.
Ewe_Wish

Jul 9 @ 12:16PM  
At this point in my life, there has only been one man that I have ever left any nail marks on. Couldn't help myself
Yes i recall you telling me about this something to do with having a hard time holding onto the whip with long fingernails wasnt it?
Ashinatrix

Jul 9 @ 12:29PM  
Enjoy it? NO!...I LOVE IT!!
OMG!!! c'mere!!!!
CrazyCraveman

Jul 9 @ 12:41PM  
OMG!!! c'mere!!!!

Only if you PROMISE to do my chest just like the woman did to Uncle Ted on his Cat Scratch Fever album...


Cuz I want me some...Ash Scratch Fever!
jezzarae

Jul 9 @ 3:07PM  
I don't scratch but like Dom's girl I have been known to bite once or twice while cumming. (minus the vampire fangs ).

It wasn't deliberate nor did it draw much blood it was just an instinctive reaction. I have learnt these days to bite the pillow not the man. I don't know what it is about orgasm that makes me want to bite.
formrmember

Jul 9 @ 7:01PM  
((A quick secret, I've never drawn blood.))

Are we playing miss innocent again?????
Thats ok. Your secret is safe with me
(the real reason I was complaining of back pain
for the past 2 days was NOT from a pulled muscle)

Oh yes, but I do have one of those too.
(blame it on the phone sex babe!)

Oh I'm sooo sore....
ladybootscooter

Jul 10 @ 1:01AM  
sadly ive never met a man that made me lose my mind enough to do that,
Wow, that would imply two different things:
1) that you'd ever been with a man period!
2) that you had a mind to lose..Tori, or is it Elizabeth today? Wait, I know today, you're a man!! Is that it? or some other voice inside your little head just dying to come out and play????
borty293

Jul 10 @ 5:17AM  
Well ..actually I'm a biter but since I lost my teeth ...I'm a gummar...and by golly ..those gums can work magic

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