well i just want to find out what other people think, i mean in the "old days" (say the 1950s) guys would court girls and flirt with them buy them flowers and stuff, then after a while they would get some action.
then for a while their seemd to be a choice, which people would do, but nowadays it seems to be that a guy has GOT to have sex with a girl FIRST before she will be interested in any romance?
have others experienced this? what is the situation, what if a guy just wants romance? if only for a while, does he have to "pay" for it with sex?
have the "rules" of dating been reversed with girls blatantly looking for sex and guys longing for a bit of tlc?
just wondering what others have experienced.
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hondabike48
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Jul 3 @ 11:15AM
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depends on the girl, but i agree some things are ass backwards from past times
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featherone
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Jul 3 @ 11:15AM
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i think sex should come first,, that way ya know if the sex is good then try the relationship :) just my thoughts :)
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featherone
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Jul 3 @ 11:36AM
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well, heres a other blog ya can read but dont comment on, 
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kozmik_wave
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Jul 3 @ 12:17PM
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i can't speak for anyone else, but i sure do like the changes! after all...romance is the farthest thing from my mind. bring it on ladies!
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Johnny1951
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Jul 3 @ 1:43PM
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Oh I had romance in my life.......Was a good experience..Married for 15 years , had 2 kids, house, 2 cars you name it....then I divorced her...So glad I did really... 
I am not looking for romance now at my age 56..I go out and pick up big women to get laid period........Big women can be a lot of fun....I don't worry about if they keep in touch with me or not... I know plenty of women who will find this offensive but I am being honest...I prefer a fuck buddy over a woman living with me and all the bs that you have to put up with like.......moods, periods, emotional questioning and all that stuff...  ...At my age it's nice to have a woman in bed and not have to feel like you owe them something...
If you are looking for true romance it's out there trust me...But you need to be persistant..... 
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zena343
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Jul 3 @ 2:02PM
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I am sure there are alot of women here that would disagree with that one. I for one want the romance first!! Intimacy is better when shared with someone you care about and have feelings for! In my opinion anyway.
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maggiemae1969
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Jul 3 @ 2:42PM
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For courting and romance
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lunanegra
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Jul 3 @ 4:57PM
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I think because its changed so much since the 50s- the new technology,more people in the workforce,the sexual revolution,etc that traditional dating is seems like its on speed.Everyone seems too busy to traditionally court anyone so they settle for "testing the waters" first instead of gradually getting to know the person before sex.Its kind of selfish,but I cant say that I'm not innocent of such behavior when I was younger.It only sets up for disappointment no matter what anyone says.I speak from experience now when I say you don't necessarily have to have sex on the first meet and that romance isn't dead;there are some who'd like to take their time. 
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smiley638
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Jul 3 @ 9:54PM
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All the men I know want sex and nothing else pretty much. I don't know any who want romance and not sex unless they are about dead. lol
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eroticgoth1
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Jul 19 @ 11:13AM
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If you get lucky and get some romance and sex in one shot would be great.....romance is something that makes it special........
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1flyguy
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Jan 29 @ 11:00AM
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well for some time now i havent been looking for any type of sex OR relationship and that may well continue for some time as i have a few problems to sort out, like making my home liveable in to start with which take priority, so for me its platonic friendship only so that means that the ladies would have to wait, get to know me first and get some romance going BEFORE getting any bedroom action...
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