There are confidence blasters, confidence boosters, and those situations that just make a body loose his/her confidence all together. Not sure where I had misplaced mine, or even when. I would put on an act of confidence when I felt the situation was right, like applying for a job, attempting to seem strong in the face of adversity, impressing the opposite sex. The latest of those three is what is on my mind.
Earlier today, while waiting to order my macho-man, caramel frap. at the local Starbucks i caught the eye of a cute girl, attempting to prove she was of the hippie mindset. You know what I mean, where a girl where's a tank top with a waist to ankle skirt with some Hindu-inspired, tie-dye pattern in the cloth? If you don't that's okay. The point is, she's cute and about my age. No words where exchanged, but that's okay, sometimes they just aren't needed.
Being a man lacking in stature I am often over looked by the opposite sex, or at least it seems like it from my point of view. Combined with that and all the image issues high school, wrestling, and college has put in my head and it adds up to me not having the highest of self asteem. Perhaps it doesn't help when I'm in a town where the only people I know are the people I'm meeting for the first time.
While generally looking at my surrounding area I found myself being checked-out. I wish all women would allow themselves to be caught a little more often, just not too much. A lingering look doesn't need to mean, "Let's talk" or something to that extent or further, but its just as good as saying out loud "you're cure" and that's enough for me to find my confidence and generally see that the world's colors are just a little brighter than before.
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Ashinatrix
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Jun 29 @ 11:10PM
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awwwwwwww.......you're cute 
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Looking4ever
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Jun 30 @ 2:13AM
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He is cute, isn't he?
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lunanegra
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Jun 30 @ 2:34AM
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Well,after reading that,you would seem 6ft3 to me.You're a dear. 
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blackcherri
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Jun 30 @ 11:48AM
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Well Untapped, I 'm sorry to read that a nice young man such as yourself is suffering from self-doubt. From what I've read you are looking to others to make you feel confident about yourself. That's where the problem stems from. You need to do something to boost your own confidence.
I suggest that you focus on doing things for yourself, by yourself, to boost your own confidence. You need a couple of good hobbies. What do you do well? Make something, build something with your own hands, take up a sport, like wrestling, and really practice at it, enter some competitions, run a marathon, volunteer your time and your skills to help others, write a poem, climb a mountain, join a book club, fight for your country. Confidence is not something that is handed to you. It's not something you can get from someone else. YOU MUST QUEST FOR IT.
These endeavors will boost your confidence and build character at the same time. Confidence comes from within, and will shine outwardly. It eminates from within and everyone will notice it because you will carry yourself in a certain manner. Once you take the steps to secure confidence, you will have to beat the women off with a stick and more importantly, you will be impowered. TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE 
 
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Loveyoulongtime2
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Jun 30 @ 11:58AM
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Taller guys do have an advantage, unless you're at least 5 foot 10 and 200 lbs women will hardly give you a second look, it doesn't matter if they themselves are less than 5 feet tall. I'm at least two inches too short for most. I've looked at probably over a thousand dating profiles where the women specify how tall the man must be and what his income should be. Six foot plus and a six figure income and you have it made, weather you have a four inch or a nine inch dick it won't matter. Remember one thing, women can get dick anywhere. They don't have to be on these sites to get a man, it's mostly entertainment for them.
But, if you have and want to spend tons of money then you can get women even if you're not tall enough, at least for a while. I don't, so I hardly get any, I'm not going to buy anyone for an hour, day or a lifetime.
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chocolatemilf
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Jun 30 @ 3:28PM
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You're a cutie...that is the first thing that sprang to mind as I looked at your page. I am not the type that shuns a little eye contact, as a matter of fact I love the look I get when it's mutual. It almost always ends in at least a smile, sometimes words, but I get what you said, it 's validating. I love to know that I am found sexy by others, but more importantly, I love to find myself sexy. Look there, that is where your confidence lies........Good Luck!
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