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posted 6/20/2007 4:19:54 PM |
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  heretohelpyou202

I understand I am married and that may minimize my chances of finding someone. I think I have been here for 2 months without a face to face. I have sent out fifty or so emails with very few responses. Is that typical? Is there anything in my profile that is turning you ladies off?

Anyway, I am open to advice. This has proven to be a very humbling experience.

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jezzarae

Jun 20 @ 7:51PM  
Honestly I see several things that will turn a woman off. Women dont tend to respond well to first contact when all they see is your dick on display. It can come across to agressive or to egotistical. Can I suggest a face shot or if that is not possible consider something else I know people who use cute animal pics on here.
Secondly reading that you are married sends up a red flag to most women. There are very few women who will by choice poach on another woman's territory. If your wife and you are into swinging that is one thing but if it is that you are cheating or looking to cheat on your wife very few women want any part of that.
Also your screen name is a little pushy.

I don't mean to offend you by these comments but you did ask what might be the problems and these are my conclusions.
heretohelpyou202

Jun 20 @ 7:55PM  
Thank you ladies. That a sibcere thank you by the way.

To recap, so far its 2 get rid of the Dick pics, 4 your married dumbass, and 1 stop whining.

Okay I am seeing a pattern developing.

Got an opinion I will keep the counts going.
hopon

Jun 20 @ 8:01PM  
I think that by saying you are married, you are only being honest, and there are some of us women out there that don't care whether you are married or not.... (yes, we are considered whores by some on here, but I personally do not care)! don't change your profile and lie on here, because that won't get you laid either!!!
Ewe_Wish

Jun 20 @ 8:08PM  
But damn he does have a sense of humor. Come on jezz you can find at least one nice thing to say about him, come on try real hard...................

personally the fact that you are upfront with it tends to gather a bit of respect from me.

Personally, if i was looking for a married man the one thing that would set me off where i wouldnt be interested is the first forum post you have.

but other than that and al the things jezz mentioned of course if its meant to be it will happen good luck
heretohelpyou202

Jun 20 @ 8:35PM  
Man you guys are brutal.
Hey but I haven't spoken to this many women in the last 2 months combined. Keep it coming.

Running totals;

5 get rid oh the dick pics
7 your married dumbass
4 watch what you blog (that wasn't my smartest move)

And for the finally

1 replace the dick pic with a small furry animal.

Justforfun. Don't hate me but it was pretty funny lol
DesertSmile

Jun 20 @ 9:53PM  
It is difficult to make a connection on this or any site, so please don't feel like the Lone Ranger.

Being married as you are and a working professional as you are the time contraints can be overwhelming. When and how do you make time? How many ladies can get away from their office during the day to race to the Marriott for a few hours of romping on the bed?

Even for me I am not fond of quick afternoon trysts. They may work for some ladies but not for me. I want a bit more from the man I choose to bed. Dinner or a lingering lunch...stimulating conversation..something to set the stage. And, I don't want ever want to feel a man is doing me a favor by offering "services".

The best I can advise is to be honest and patient, very patient.
31sunshine

Jun 20 @ 10:37PM  
Ok, here is my 2 cents...the dick pics turn me off, being married is the biggest reason I wouldn't reply or contact you...and I also read what people write before I reply and I agree with looking that it wasn't flatering comments you posted, those alone would turn me off.

Be patient and keep trying!!
Ewe_Wish

Jun 20 @ 10:41PM  
Ok Ladies lets give him some slack hell i have had 5 married men.....3 of which were my own.
heretohelpyou202

Jun 20 @ 11:14PM  
I just wanted to thank yall for all of the feedback its been very enlightening. I promise to take your advice to heart. I will continue to return any and all emails. Please keep an eye out for my next blog. "should I tell ladies about my sailboat and a sunset cruise, or is that too cheesy"

Again, thank you ladies.

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