Men and Women of the AMD Community ... Your Killing Me FLAT OUT and not in the joking haha way. So Please forgive my crast ways right now, however do Shut Up and Listen Up for a Moment. This is only for the serious minded and those of a serious heart.
In my lifetime I have only shedded tears for two men on this damm thing we call the internet. After the first man brought me to tears I vowed then and there that I would never again, that no man was worth a woman's tears that way. Chat rooms and these Personnal Sites, NO. If I can let you get to me that way over a computer screen then I have to look at myself, a long hard look at my heart and my soul. The second man to ever do this happened this morning when I read his blog ... NIGHTOFOLD. The first man was not worth my tears, however NIGHTOFOLD I will say you are and here is my reasoning.
We all know what type of site this is. SEX. However so many more coming here looking FOR SO MUCH MORE. Which is right and which is fine and Great. I AM ONE. Sex has to lead to something. Any person whom says they can have sex with no feeling or connection other than physical is a waste in my book. Sex is only best when it comes from the true connection and from the heart. SO don't even argue this with me.
I have posted blogs in the past to rant about how I feel about Men on this site. I am Guilty of that. I like everyone get frustrated. I AM WORTH MORE. That is how I feel. It is easy to get fired up and join the band wagon, and sometimes not even regret or think of the ones you might hurt along the way ... such as NIGHTOF OLD.
For those whom say this is a Sex Site and tell others to go find another .... GET REAL ... every damm personal site is like this ya fools. MatchDoctor is worse than AdultMatchDoctor. At least here I can see the JackAsses coming at me. Other site they get a bit smooth and slick ... takes two emails to figure them out.
Men and Women are the same ... here and every where's when it comes to these sites. Some just want sex, some want friendships, some want relationships, some want to hurt others, some just don't want to be alone any more. For as much as we can bash men we can bash women. Women bash men on here and sing their praises and Men bash women on here and sing their praises.
Maybe AMD needs to have the blogs reviewed better to avoid such things. However it will happen and it will continue to happen. I hate reading on here about members leaving. So go for good, others come back. Some do it for the drama. If I was to decide to leave AMD, I would just go. People would see that Yesterday turn into a day, 1 week, to 1 month. Once I have reached the last long in 1 month you know I am gone. I figure it takes one good month to break a habit. After that you are over the worst of it ... THE CRAVING.
NIGHTOFOLD ... you got me when you said you have friends here ... however you would not find anything more ... what you are looking for. Luv I am in the same boat as you. I do not know you ... I read some of your blogs. Gay or Straight we all have the same problems. I am 36 and I want to be in a relationship ... I hate when men see me only one way ... So I am alone by choice I tell people. True to a point. I have gone two weeks now with no emails from anyone. That is a killer to my ego and a killer to my heart. I know how I see myself and I think I know how others see me. This is my down time, I deal with it. At work however things are picking up. Truly when a door closes another door or at least a window will open. LUV I can not and will not tell you to go or to stay ... your heart will do that ... however I can say I know and I feel your pain ... and LUV my heart and my thoughts and my prayers are with you ... nobody wants to be alone or just the "friend" ... we all want and deserve more ... They say there is a person out there for each and everyone of us ... if this is true then NIGHTOFOLD when you find her or she finds you ... I think you will be a lucky man and she will truly be a very lucky lady ... just don't ever give up ... follow your heart ... even sometimes before your head. Sometimes we can over think love and relationships and people ... if it is right your heart will guide you and lead you along the right path.
ON this site we all see alot of pic's and read alot of profiles. G Pics and XXX Pics ... sometimes no pics ... however we all have this in common ... we are all here looking for SOME ONE AND NOT SOMETHING ... even you married people ... we all want more THATS IT ... something in the heart not your dicks or pussy's or asses needs to be filled and it is not ...
I hope everyone has read NIGHTOFOLD's Blog ... I did not read any of the blogs from yesterday ... not sure I want to ... however this one ... NIGHTOFOLD's do read and then sit back and think of his words and then TAKE A LONG GOOD HARD LOOK AT YOURSELVES AND WHY YOU ARE TRULY HERE .... GOD REMEMBER THERE ARE REAL PEOPLE BEHIND THESE SCREENS ... REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL EMOTIONS ... GAY STRAIGHT BISEXUAL TRANSGENDER WHATEVER ... ONE THING WE WILL ALL DO HERE AT AMD IS TO RESPECT ONE ANOTHER .... ALL THIS SANDBOX FIGHTING IS JUST BS ... DON'T FEED INTO IT ... PEOPLE WRITE CERTAIN TYPE OF BLOGS FOR THE ATTENTION AND THE REACTION ... WE ARE ALL BETTER THAN THAT TO NOT FEED INTO THAT ... RESPECT OTHERS ... RESPECT YOURSELVES
NIGHTOFOLD ... Whatever you decide in your heart I WISH YOU NOTHING BUT LOVE JOY HAPPINESS AND PEACE TO START WITH. I wish this for everyone on this site and other sites.
ALWAYS WITH MY LUV,
Ms. Eva
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grabb0r
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Jun 13 @ 11:45AM
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I think I'm going to post a "RE: My Open Letter For The Entire AMD Community." blog entry. Cheers!
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docvn
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Jun 13 @ 11:48AM
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Ms.Eva, get a grip baby, no one on this site should get "hurt" on here, how people get emotionally infolved with someone they have never met is beyond me. Not only that but anybody can be anyone on here, so just have fun with site, big women get upset when someone sends an email and says "loose weight" and u will get laid, so what its no big deal, expect that when you put up a 300 lb pic. Men and women, so just take it for what it is, a site where people can express there oponions.
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max49
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Jun 13 @ 11:50AM
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You are absolutely right and I couldn't agree more with you. NightofOld IS and will ALWAYS be my friend. There isn't a kinder, more gentle man in this world I don't think and I hate that he has been made to feel the way he does. Thank you for the blog Ms. Eva and a kudo for posting it. 
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Looking4ever
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Jun 13 @ 12:30PM
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It's a wonder that everyone hasn't fallen in love with you, dear!
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Lisa46
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Jun 13 @ 2:05PM
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I must agree with everything you just said!!!  And I have cried over one man from here also! And I will be damned if I do it again!
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j1on1
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Jun 13 @ 2:16PM
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Of course people are all different, that is what makes life fun and sometimes not so fun. However I don't believe you can make general statements about "not getting emotionally involved" etc. People will get involved, it is human nature, especially when it becomes more than just the odd on-line chat where you make contact in a more personal way. When that happens people can get hurt.
There are others, no doubt on this site who can disassociate themselves from emotion - in one way I envy them in another way I feel sorry for them.
Just a thought - I will now wait for the flames 
J
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Dominus
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Jun 13 @ 2:20PM
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No one should ever have to leave a place because they feel unwelcome, unless they have deliberately made themselves unwelcome. And I fail to see how someone who has brought nothing but reason and beauty here could do that.
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baldbychoice2kx
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Jun 13 @ 2:34PM
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If only she lived closer to me...or I closer to her.
And you've made some great points here, but I wonder if it will fall on more deaf ears than raptly listening ones.
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casuallylooking
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Jun 13 @ 2:47PM
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Ms Eva.......what a lovely blog.
You're correct, when he finds his true love she will be one of the luckiest women in the world. He is such a wonderful man and has so much love and respect to share with her........He is a friend of mine and I am proud to say that. He has written me the most beautiful poetry and always been such a gentleman....
As you can tell from your your resposnes, there really are good people on here. Even if it is no big deal to some.
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Ashinatrix
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Jun 13 @ 3:05PM
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AMD
The land of wishful thinking
beautiful hopes
and broken dreams
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31sunshine
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Jun 13 @ 3:53PM
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Eva, great job!! I couldn't have said it better myself!!
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NachoBaby
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Jun 13 @ 5:32PM
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Dang girl, you get one of my highly coveted, rarely used and utterly worthless kudos! Thank you for being yet one more voice of reason in this void.
I see Doc is all over being sorry for being an ass...
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DavidL44
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Jun 13 @ 7:20PM
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A well spoken letter Ms.Eva!
God knows we need more folks like
you on this site. Chuck is a really good guy.
He has the heart of a lover, and the soul
of a poet. That was nice what you did for him.
You have my gratitude, and a kudo too.
Take care!
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Ewe_Wish
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Jun 13 @ 7:44PM
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Ms.Eva, get a grip baby, no one on this site should get "hurt" on here, how people get emotionally infolved with someone they have never met is beyond me Hey docvn kiss my ass. (and i didnt mean that in a sexual way)
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