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posted 6/6/2007 10:35:43 PM |
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How can you tell if you're bi? I'm not necessarily attracted to girls, I've fooled around with a girl because I'm a horn dog and wanted to get off. But just because I was sexual with them does that make me bisexual? Do you have to have a romantic attraction to the same sex as well as the opposite sex to be considered bisexual? Do you have to be able to romantically love your same sex in order to be bi? I'm just curious, seems like there are so many people here that can make sense of things that I can't.

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sumdaysoon

Jun 6 @ 10:42PM  
bisexual

adjective
1. sexually attracted to both sexes
2. having an ambiguous sexual identity

noun
1. a person who is sexually attracted to both sexes

your definition is what you believe yourself to be..........
Dominus

Jun 6 @ 10:46PM  
Personally, I feel people put too much stock in simple definitions. While you may call yourself "straight" or "bisexual", it hardly means you're attracted to every person out there.

There are people who are not "homosexual", yet find themselves attracted to one particular person. Although there are some people who claim to be one thing or the other, there is almost always a gray area somewhere in there.

I look at it this way: Love is hard enough to find as is. When you find the right person, then don't let them slip away because of a definition.

Attraction is easier to find, but once again, you need to be honest with yourself and others for it to work. Seem to make sense?
cabl_guy

Jun 6 @ 11:27PM  
Well, my take on it would be that, if you enjoy intimacy and the touch of a person of the same sex, you would be bi. But, that's just in a sexual sense. So, MAYBE, you just enjoy sex in general with either sex?
Point being...........who the fuck cares?! It brings you enjoyment, yes? So, why worry about defining it by the PO's standards? If you'd have a serious, committed relationship with another woman, you might be bi or you might be les.....by the "definitions" they put out there. Yet, you still like men?
It makes no differance in the end. As long as YOU know what makes you happy. Sometimes it's just about the individual and not so much about what sex they may be. It's about if they make you feel good as a person.
Don't worry about it! Live for the moment! Fuck society! JMHO
cabl_guy

Jun 6 @ 11:30PM  
Well, my take on it would be that, if you enjoy intimacy and the touch of a person of the same sex, you would be bi. But, that's just in a sexual sense. So, MAYBE, you just enjoy sex in general with either sex?
Point being...........who the fuck cares?! It brings you enjoyment, yes? So, why worry about defining it by the PO's standards? If you'd have a serious, committed relationship with another woman, you might be bi or you might be les.....by the "definitions" they put out there. Yet, you still like men?
It makes no differance in the end. As long as YOU know what makes you happy. Sometimes it's just about the individual and not so much about what sex they may be. It's about if they make you feel good as a person.
Don't worry about it! Live for the moment! Fuck society! JMHO
lintroller

Jun 6 @ 11:36PM  
I think Dom's comment is totally on point. You are who you are. Intuitively, though, you might be more willing to label yourself as bisexual if you were closer to ambivalence about which gender you're attracted to more rather than decidedly attracted to men or women. The fact that you played around with a girl before but tend not to gravitate toward them makes the experience sound transient, and more on the fringe of where you define your sexuality.

Wait... can I coin a new term? It's at the outskirts of your "Sexual Penumbra." Oh, that's hot...
LadieDarkStarr

Jun 6 @ 11:41PM  
I'm leaning more toward agreeing with Dom. (SHOCK) lol. I once had a very flamboyant gay man tell me (when he was VERY inebriated) that it doesn't matter what orientation someone is if they are a sexual person. He was known for sleeping with the 'straight' boys as one night stands. While he knew that there would be no romantic relationship following the sex, he also knew they would be hard pressed to turn down "the best blow job of their life". LoL

When asked what orientation I am, I usually respond with Bisexual. I enjoy both men and women in a sexual sense. However, I have yet to be in a committed relationship with a woman.

You aren't any orientation, you're just a sexual person. Good on ya!
docvn

Jun 6 @ 11:54PM  
if you ate some chick or she ate u your homosexual
ynot7769

Jun 7 @ 1:12AM  
if you ate some chick or she ate u your homosexual

well TT.......there ya have it..finally the advice of an expert on homosexuality .....based on some of his other opinions its' the only answer..so ..follow what he says...i'm sure you'll be fine...........



ok ok.........maybe not ...you be YOU babe...the rest wont matter
REVELATOR

Jun 7 @ 3:09AM  
Shabboo shabbar!! I'm reading this, aren't I?
letmepleaseu146

Jun 7 @ 9:59PM  
Labels labels that all people talk about ..

If you are attracted to woman in a sexual way and want to have sex with them and you like men as well then yes you are bisexual ..

I myself perfur woman over men so dose that make me a lesbian but I am married to a man ..
See how labels can just confuse a person ..

Just be yourself and if you like both sexes then enjoy it !
If not then stick to what makes you happy ...

freedie

Jun 8 @ 4:18AM  
I laik. Yu wan filosa any sex. Yu big beech. I laik ver much!!!
Loveyoulongtime2

Jun 9 @ 2:11PM  
He was known for sleeping with the 'straight' boys as one night stands. While he knew that there would be no romantic relationship following the sex, he also knew they would be hard pressed to turn down "the best blow job of their life". LoL
The word 'straight' in the above quote is open to interpretation. I know that I would rather jerk off than get a blow job from another guy. I'm just not interested and have been propositioned a couple of times in person. I suppose that makes me straight. The others that will go for it, they are somewhere in that grey area between bi and straight.

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