Fuck it I'm just gonna jump right into it...
I'm having trouble getting to the big O while masterbating! What the fuck it wrong with me?
This weekend my boyfriend and I purchased a rather expensive (we got a discount, just b/c the chick liked us HELL YEA) toy. This toy is FANFUCKINGTASTIC. Its a "Micro Butterfly arouser." Simple terms, it's a bullet in a pink butterfly cover that is hands free. The discription on back goes as fallows: "Soft, sensual, and fully adjustable. This powerful clitoral stimulator has unique random sequence of vibration, pulsation and escalation." I HIGHLY reccomend any toy that would fit this description. Best part about it? Hands free and easily worn while fucking!!! BONUS. We decided to give the little guy a whirl this past weekend and were VERY satisfied (hah, at least I was lol). It got me SO good, I broke into a fit of giggles and he couldn't touch me for a good 20 mins without making me crack up. Proof right THERE that this toy works for me.
I just spent a good 20-30 minutes attempting to get off. I grabbed my little flutter buddy, and my vibrator. I assumed that since it took this wonderfly and penetration to get me off so well I should do my best to recreate it. After 20+mins of the "I'm ALMOST THERE" feeling, I gave up. VERY frusterated. What the fuck is this shit??????
Back to the original issue at hand. Why can't I all of a sudden get off by myself? Anyone else ever suffer from something similar? Any suggestions?
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hopon
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Jun 5 @ 5:19PM
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yup... sometimes when my clit or pussy is too oversensitive from getting a lot of recent action.....it isn't you.. don't worry....I have also seen this happen to guys.
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totallytaboo
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Jun 5 @ 5:24PM
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You just have to take a break. Sometimes i focus so hard on cumming, that I can't. An orgasm is 50% mental. I pull back a lot, trying to make it bigger, trying to tease myself, and sometimes it results in nothing happening at all. Your body can stall on your Just try being a little gentler, you can get the point too where you can only cum from toys than just your fingers, so always switch back and forth!! Also, when you cum over and over, day in and day out, you can rub your clit almost raw----- so that you have a harder time getting to the Big O- just take that into consideration.
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Navior
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Jun 5 @ 5:44PM
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Yea, this has happend to me before, not just by myself but also with another person. Usually happens when I've been overstimulated, I get unsensitive and it can take a day or two of chilling out for it to come back. If I've cum too many times recently or have been using a vibrator especially.
It seems to vary tho, some times I've cum 5-6 times in a night. Other times if I've cum recently it can take a real workout to get off! 
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NachoBaby
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Jun 5 @ 6:08PM
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actually if you were using both the butterfly and an internal vibrator, that right there might be the problem. Overstimulation can cause a loss of over the top.
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tlc0766
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Jun 5 @ 7:52PM
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I'm the exact opposite I cum too fast and it's like what you're done already??? 
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bkaw810
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Jun 5 @ 8:45PM
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it's a curse, you can no longer have an orgasm unless i'm there to assist. 
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regularguy354
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Jun 5 @ 10:47PM
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Hey Ladie, You do need to just relax and let it happen. Seems to me that TLC has figured that out. :)
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coltsfootball
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Jun 6 @ 4:57AM
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Just Admit It...You Suck In Bed 
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