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posted 6/5/2007 9:47:15 AM |
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  totallytaboo

I just got some devastating news! It's crushing my ego as I type this. Apparently, I'm not very good at something. And here I thought I was pretty much awesome at everything. I've actually never had someone say "Uh, that kind of sucked".. literally and figuratively. I mean, sure I've always know that giving head has never been my strong suit, but I didn't know I was bad enough for someone to just blatantly tell me so.

So please, if guys or women have pointers to make it more enjoyable, please school me! Any certain way to lick it? Suck it? Do they really like the deep throating? Should you take one of his entire balls and put it in your mouth? Do they like you to gnaw on the chode? How bout the finger in the ass when they cum, yes or no? Should I use cough drops or brush my teeth beforehand? Do they find it sexier for you to swallow or for them to cum on your face? HELP ME PLEASE!!!

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Pudge2you

Jun 5 @ 9:49AM  
you definately need to try my new game...
pervertedpapa

Jun 5 @ 9:54AM  
Want to get better?
Practice, practice, practice!

Personally, I love cumming on a girls face a little, then letting her swallow the rest. I'll even help her lick my cum off of her face if that turns her on.
luckymonkey2

Jun 5 @ 9:57AM  
I think eye contact is key...and practice, practice, practice.
soc1man

Jun 5 @ 10:17AM  
Be Thorough !! Remember you eat the whole sundae...not just the ice cream
go all the way down to the goolies
lintroller

Jun 5 @ 10:19AM  
Totally varies... I think you just gotta ask on the fly. I've never understood the cum on the face thing because it seems really demeaning; and gnawing anywhere doesn't really do it for me, much less the "chode," which, according to the urban dictionary, is the skin between the base of the scrotum and the anus. Balls are crazy tender, so be careful with them and ask. Deep throating? Again, it seems like more of a chore and can come across as demeaning if you're uncomfortable with it.

I think the basic point is, we're all a little different. The key is not to focus for 30 seconds on some area that turns out not to be erogenous at all. Also, the real hot button area--a couple centimeters below the head on the dorsal surface, which is the side that faces you if you're staring at an erect penis (the side that's not facing his belly)--can be a little tricky. Approach it from the south (and from every other direction), but don't linger too long or it will become uncomfortable.

Anyway, I ramble... don't worry about the criticism--he was a little obnoxious to be so blunt about it, because I'm sure he wasn't a sexual rock star either. Just remember: no one's inherently good at anything unless they're lucky.
donwv69

Jun 5 @ 10:20AM  
i enjoy a lot of tongue licking the head and around the rim its very sensitive and feels great you dont even have to suck hard just enough to make it feel good and you have to enjoy what your doing if you dont like giving head the man your with will know and as everyone else has said practice a lot lol .
max49

Jun 5 @ 10:21AM  
Wll sugar I can only speak for myself but I have never had a "bad" blow job. Some ARE better than others but never bad. Any certain way to lick it? Any way you want to lick it feels good to me. Suck it? There again any way you want to suck it is nice. Do they really like the deep throating? I would have to say the answer to this is yes but I for one like it even if you just have the head of my dick in your mouth. Should you take one of his entire balls and put it in your mouth? I would say this is up to you. Yes I love to have my balls sucked on and licked but only if you want to do it and if you can get the whole thing in your mouth then go for it. Do they like you to gnaw on the chode? I for one like to have anything gnawed on that you want to gnaw on. How bout the finger in the ass when they cum, yes or no? This is a matter of opinion. I would say yes but some would say no. I love having my ass fingered and played with before, during and after cumming. Should I use cough drops or brush my teeth beforehand? This again I would leave up to you. I like it either way. Do they find it sexier for you to swallow or for them to cum on your face? I am willing to cum wherever you want me to cum and I would even lick it off afterwards if you wanted but swallowing is very good as well. I say change off and have fun with whatever the two of you agree on. As for telling you that you didn't give good head even IF I thought you didn't. I would try to tell you and direct you as to what and how I liked it just as I would hope you would tell and direct me if I wasn't pleasing you when I went down on you. I hope this helped and good luck to you.
Werther

Jun 5 @ 10:29AM  
My biggest complaint: teeth. I don't like coming on someone's face unless my partner is submissive and needs to be abused in some way. I don't really get off on women with those kinds of needs. I think most men prefer that the shaft be caressed when they cum; the head is far too sensitive at that moment. Prostate massage? MMMM
tlc0766

Jun 5 @ 10:32AM  
I'm not sure but everyone I've ever given the guys seemed to like having you swirl your tongue around the head while they are in your mouth, it's kind of hard to describe, but they always moan an awfule lot when you do that.
sepsl45677

Jun 5 @ 10:51AM  
The best blow job I ever had was a from a woman who was REALLY INTO IT! She LOVED sucking cock and that is what came through to me on the receiving end.
I think you and I should practice for 3 -4 days...
connectwith

Jun 5 @ 10:54AM  
all i can say is, gret over here and i'll be your teacher, you will need ot stay after alot and do it over and over
BananaBoy4u

Jun 5 @ 11:01AM  
Try blowing his buddy while he watches and videos or takes notes then you can have a subjective conversation after to determine the things he likes. Bet after that you won't have much complaining.
grabb0r

Jun 5 @ 11:28AM  
My best advice is to go slow, seek feedback, and kindly let your limits be known. It's crazy awesome when your partner asks if you like something they're doing while giving you a nice slow blowjob. Let him KNOW you want pointers. Asking BEFORE you do things is important, too. Too many times I've had women suck on my balls out of the blue -- which I personally can't stand -- then have a hurt ego and give poor head because they're frightened of making another mistake. The final part, letting your limits be known, is basically protection from hurting his ego; people will tend to be less communicative if they ask you to do something and you get a twisted look on your face and indignantly say, "Hell No!"

I can't stress this enough -- take it SLOW. Build up from light licking and little to no "suction" on just a small part of the penis by asking questions. Some men like light scraping of the teeth, some find too much focus on the head to be unpleasant, some men want fingers up the ass, every man is different. There are no universally good techniques, since some men don't even like blowjobs!

Asking your partner what they want -- even if it's only a one-nighter -- before and during any kind of sex can be a HUGE turn on for you both and will make you both more satisfied with the experience.
CrazyCraveman

Jun 5 @ 12:00PM  
You're asking ALL the WRONG people! You shouldn't be asking any of us...you should be asking...HIM...

As you could ask a 100 men what they like and enjoy, and you'd get a 100 different answers! OK, many of the things they'd say would be the same...but not all.

Same with asking a 100 women what it is they do, you'll get a 100 different answers. Same goes for men and performing oral on women...

Communication with your partner is the key! If he's not happy with how you perform, then tell him rather than complain...to tell you what he likes, enjoys, and turns him on!
ajay_t43

Jun 5 @ 12:03PM  
The thing you need to do is give more blow jobs. The more you give, the better you get. Anyway, put his balls in your mouth. Don't bite the dick. Imagine me scraping a finger nail in your pussy. lick his dick with your tongue from the bottom up. Don't be afraid to take it in the face, titts, wherever and then don't be afraid to put it in your mouth after that. Just ask him where he wants to cum and what he wants you to do with it and if you do it that way, it'll be much better :P. give an occasional hand job and cover his cock with cum and lick it all. After you blow him, keep blowing him so he almost feels "pain" from cumming :P.

Hope this helps.

Now you gotta help me with how I can better please women...not that I don't already but there's room for improvement! :P.

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max49

Jun 5 @ 12:21PM  
I have to agree with CrazyCraveman. Everyone likes something different.
stoptheache

Jun 5 @ 12:31PM  
Make little noises of joy while youre slurping his shaft, as if youre close to an orgasm yourself. This drives men crazy. Also a trick I learned was to cover myself up with the covers so that he cant see me. Ive been told this lends an anonomous slant to things, and he can just focus on how it feels rather than watching me and knowing what Im doing next.
Michael44A

Jun 5 @ 12:55PM  
I'd be happy to be a test-subject.

sumdaysoon

Jun 5 @ 1:19PM  
totally check out this blog from a while back........it has some techniques to try.........http://www.adultmatchdoctor.com/blog_8337/A_question_about_blowjobs.html.........
Dominus

Jun 5 @ 1:39PM  
Give giggl_sprite an e-mail and tell her I told you to seek some tips. She's just simply incredible.
single4fun

Jun 5 @ 1:43PM  
so how was he at eating your pussy ???
allforyou999

Jun 5 @ 2:35PM  
FIrst off you have to enjoy doing it. Don't do because you have to. I can tell the difference between a lady that loves to do or just does it.

If you enjoy it and it excites you, there shouldn't be any problem.

If you want to swollow, do it, if not don't.
Thick8forUn04

Jun 5 @ 3:20PM  
there is no such thing as a bad blowjob,sounds like he was just a asshole.but,i like a woman to grip my cock firm while she strokes it,being licked is great,tease the head with tongue,lick the shaft,and being pretty thick most women cant go much further then sucking the head,but just suck like you are sucking a lollipop,i am sure your fine ,just sounds like he was a asshole
Ray586

Jun 5 @ 4:47PM  
I agree mostly with lintroller. Only things I would ad is be very sensual when doing it and be passionate about it. It is always more enjoyable if I believe she is really enjoying. If I think she is really enjoy it then its more of a turn on and it helps the guys ego. So enjoy doing it! One golden rule No Teeth.
kozmik_wave

Jun 5 @ 6:50PM  
My oh my what a question! If you're down here in OC let me know...would love to "discuss" this in real life...you'll never hear a complaint form me.

I can't imagine anyone saying that in the first place, in 30 years I've never had a bad blowjob...if men are like women we all have our preferences and you might just have to ask the person what they like and how they like it. Sounds like all this has been said before but putting my 2 cents in anyway,,,just in case you're in the nieghborhood and take me up on it ;)

Giggl_Sprite

Jun 5 @ 8:14PM  
If you can still find it there is a wonderful book call " Sex Tips for the Straight Women from a Gay Man" It has a whole chapter devoted to Oral Sex and Hand Jobs, it really helped me polish my technique.
Giggl_Sprite

Jun 5 @ 8:19PM  
If you can still find it there is a wonderful book call " Sex Tips for the Straight Women from a Gay Man" It has a whole chapter devoted to Oral Sex and Hand Jobs, it really helped me polish my technique. Most important of all, have fun with it! Ask questions. If your guy is unhappy, then find out what was wrong. Also I found that practicing on frozen fruit pops helped me learn to relax my throat thereby lessening my gag reflex!
NachoBaby

Jun 6 @ 12:30PM  
First, let me say this, if he was jerk enough to complain like that, then he will complain about everything else as well in your relationship. Do you really want someone like that? I wouldn't.

If he had issues with what you were doing, it is HIS responsibility to let you know what would feel better.
greatguynnj

Jun 6 @ 5:47PM  
THE SAME WAY YOU EAT A SNOW CONE OR YOGURT CONE IN THE SUMMER IS HOW YOU GIVE A GREAT BLOW JOB.
NEED A PRACTICE BUDDY LET ME KNOW.
ROBERT
wayne2100

Jun 14 @ 5:31PM  
spit or swallow, only you can decide
Loveyoulongtime2

Jun 14 @ 5:55PM  
Blowjobs are overrated, compared to pussy and even handjobs. But if you like doing it then show some enthusiasm. I can't cum from oral most times unless I get a good handjob at the same time.
firefighter41

Apr 6 @ 2:06PM  
Practice of course and also ask him what he likes. Don't let your ego get in the way. Knowing what he wants and likes will make it so much better for both
mom_soccer

Aug 23 @ 8:48PM  
please him any you can ask him what he likes to have done if you can all of him AND any of his balls then dod dit if not do not try you might hurt him
SexPet

Aug 24 @ 8:57AM  
Two necessary components for giving great head:

1) You have to love giving head.

2) Variety. Start in a teasing manner ~ briefly touching (with your hand, hair, tongue or breasts) all the hot spots. Sensually building up to a frantic passionate hungry attack upon his manhood.

Just my opinion



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