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posted 6/4/2007 3:59:31 PM |
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So this month has been just a sheer heartache for me. I feel like I have let go of anything tangible and have nothing to grab onto. Last night I couldn't sleep. I am exhausted and tired today. So tired that I want to cry and I can't.
You know just over a week ago I found out Doug had lied to me about everything for 10 long years. Which really shouldn't matter because I have chosen to be with Phil and not Doug. So what's the dif everyone says? Regardless it still hurts like hell. I truly, deeply, madly loved and trusted Doug. He was someone I could tell anything to, so yeah it hurt regardless of the fact we were no longer together. He had just recently asked me to choose him over Phil. So lately I had been questioning myself "what if"
Then in the last few days I find searches on Phils computer for porn and teen porn. I find a picture of a ladies naked breasts on his phone which he says he never knew was there. Then to top it all off the lady who has text messaged my phone before about Phil cheating on me once again texted me today and said he is still at it and has a kid on the way and won't leave her alone and wants him to leave her alone but won't and the sex sucked with him. This is the 3rd instance of her texting me. Everytime Phil says he has no idea why she is doing it. He doesn't cheat ect. I don't know what to believe. He yells at me when I ask about it and calls her a cunt and me a bitch for believing it.
I don't know maybe she is just causing trouble. Maybe I should just believe it. I am so confused *tears*

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nativeamr35

Jun 4 @ 4:13PM  
Phil is cheating on you. Even if he hasn't touched this women, he has made coversation with her eluding to it.

Let's just for the sake of arguement say that He's done nothing wrong. He has serious bagage that needs to be taken care of BEFORE he gets into a relationship.

End of story.

Matt
Mudfrog

Jun 4 @ 5:02PM  
What a bunch of jack asses all of them, but usually when someone gets that angry that fast over something that means their probably guilty, you just have to think of why would this women texting you would lie.
and if this guy isn't cheating on you, wouldn't he be surprised and try to make you believe him instead of lashing out?
Natgoat

Jun 4 @ 5:13PM  
* Intriguing! *
See my Letter . .

Nat
Dominus

Jun 4 @ 6:49PM  
This actually happened between some friends of mine so I can speak from experience. Sometimes, when a person is aroused by something (porn, the idea of a threesome, erotic chat) they are informed by society that it's "wrong." This will lead them to hide the fact that they have an interest in it from people that they care about; not wishing to expose them to what they have been convinced is "shameful."

For some people, the menage a trois is anathema to a relationship. Others might find porn to be something that is a horrible turn off. Some may be offended or insulted by the idea of erotic IM or webcams. Sometimes it's a case of both couples liking those things and never even knowing about it. Sometimes it's a case of one person saying "well, it's never turned me on but if you like it then it's OK."

But the real problem here is whether a couple is fully exploring their sexuality and communicating openly about it. It's so vital that you understand what arouses your partner and that you allow them to engage in the legal behaviors that will let them become aroused. If you can't find a middle ground with your partner, then you shouldn't be partners in the first place.

Obviously, people shouldn't pursue erotic behaviors that are illegal or dangerous. They should seek help to address those problems. But all too often the term "sex", just like the term "love", means different things to different people. It's up to us to find out what those things are.
kozmik_wave

Jun 4 @ 7:09PM  
Guys do what all time?
NachoBaby

Jun 4 @ 7:24PM  
I can't tell you what Phil is up to, but I can tell you a story about a man who lied and cheated and did all manner of illegal things, but when confronted accused me of being the 'bad guy'. It's usually a sign that they are indeed doin the crime.
HRRRICKANE

Jun 4 @ 8:55PM  
YOURE GETTIN FUCKIN PLAYED GIRL........wake up and smell the coffee.....sorry to be so blunt.....been there done that....have some self respect and say.....fuck you .....bye loser !!!!!!
hopon

Jun 4 @ 9:06PM  
he's cheating....don't continue to believe his lies.... leave him
Thick8forUn04

Jun 4 @ 11:03PM  
well,first,you shouldnt be letting him call you a bitch for bringing it up,he is cheating on you,if he really cared for you,those things wouldnt keep coming up.sounds like he is one of those assholes who doesnt care where he is getting some from,and tries to weasel his way out when confronted,you should have dumped his lieing cheating ass the first time he called you a bitch for believing it.and trust me sweetie,its not that GUYS do it all the time,men and women both do it ,and not ALL guys do it.

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