I posted this to another blog where someone was asking,
First of all, I've taken some flak, & I know there are alot of homophobes who freak out over it, so I'd like to clarify, instigate some discussion, see if there any like-mindeds, & generally tell the homo-haters to fuck off & die, you're lame & I've got another blog post coming just for you.
So w/out further adieu:
Though we see other people, my wife & I are actively looking for a shared partner. My wife tends to get along better with men, so it follows that I should be open to finding one, even if we don't have sex per se. I think 90% of guys are ugly, but its a matter of interlocking parts - she likes 2 at a time, & I love seeing her pleased.
We've had threesomes with women, and have each dated members of the opposite sex before & since we've been married. The women, however, are a bit nuttier in general, and less suited to long term polyamourous relationships. On top of that, my wife tends to get unavoidably jealous when I go out with women and she does not have a male partner. So, to keep things balanced, I am looking for both.
Does that clear things up? Its complicated, but such is the nature of humanity.
Spike28
PS
There really should be more, and simultaneous, selections available: Men, Women, Mixed couples, males couples, female couples, groups, trans. A lot of sites have that setup.
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