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The real ones outweigh the jerks

posted 5/25/2007 1:32:59 AM |
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I've read many blogs and responses about people on this site not being real. And sometimes that is true. Sometimes we never know for sure. But then there are the ones that you meet and little by little you get to know him and he's as real as can be.
I met such a person. He's extremely talented and intelligent. Humorous to the point of tears. Gentle, kind and a bit of a smartass. Uh, better make that more than a bit. We've emailed and im'd for hours at a time. Talked on the phone for hours, and then still didn't want to hang up.We agree on so many things and we seem to understand where the other is coming from and where they have been.
For reasons that I don't care to go into, we both know that we will never be more than friends.Although we do seem to have a strong sexual effect on each other. But he, I believe, has a lot to offer as a friend and a human being. Online and off.
Did I mention that he is caring? I have a very important doctors appt. tomorrow and although there is quite a bit of distance between us he suggested that I let him drive the distance and go with me. For emotional and moral support just in case I need it.Although I said no, how sweet and caring is that?
So in those times when I get those emails from jerks telling me how much I suck because I sent him a polite no thank response, or what a sleazy slut I must be because I'm not interested in him, I know that they are just a very small percentage of the men on here. And they don't count as much as they would like to think they do. To the larger percentage who are kind, respectful and know how to play nice, Thank You.

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Blueyesprkln

May 25 @ 1:45AM  
Thanks for that blog. I think all of us need to remember that when we sign on every day. I know it gets downheartening each day when you get told you don't belong here or get called nasty names because you just don't want to jump into bed with someone at the drop of a hat, but we have to remember that there are some nice caring men here on this site. We just have to find them.
NightOfOld

May 25 @ 2:19AM  

I glad you found someone you think so much of.
It's really nice when people connect in any way
on here. I truly wish your docs visit is good too.
Have a wonderful night sweety.
wtxman

May 25 @ 2:31AM  
Sorry but I just don't remember those long phone conversations.
Ewe_Wish

May 25 @ 5:45AM  
What an awesome blog!!! Your right there are alot of nice people out there. I have met some really great friends here. Friends i remain friends with after they have left this site.

Good luck with your doctors appt. I hope all turns out well for you. Your in my prayers.
meandhim8184

May 25 @ 7:41AM  
aww... well, I hope you guys stay GREAT friends! I LOVE when I can meet someone like that... whether its on here, myspace, the grocery store... where ever.

I hope your dr's appt goes smoothly :o)
Lisa46

May 25 @ 8:51AM  
yes i know how you feel! My friend brought me to this site and I have met a few nice men here, I've also made an awesome friend in Aly (also met a great lover) but i guess it depends on who we chose to get to know! loved your blog honey and much luck with your Drs. appt!
max49

May 25 @ 10:07AM  
Great blog sweetie and I couldn't agree more. Sounds like aserious doctors appointment you have. I hope everything turns out okay. Kudo for the blog.
Thick8forUn04

May 25 @ 10:41AM  
great blog,i just wished the ladies local to me would give me a chance,LOL one wants to but i think she is more interested in doing things to MY ass,said she has a strap on she wants to use on me,i just want a friend for fun,i will glady talk to them,maybe go out somewhere if she likes,but hopefully still have a fun and pleasing time for both once in awhile.oh,i am the type that would help a friend out to,
sue1968

May 25 @ 10:57AM  
This blog is awesome, I hope that your appointment goes well sweetie
and you will be in my prayers.
Sue
PrincessKissy

May 25 @ 11:38AM  
He sounds like a great guy. Good luck on your doctors appt, I hope everything turns out ok.
harborlights

May 27 @ 3:41AM  
I'm authentic, genuine, bonafide and...
a jerk!

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