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Five days of solitude.......

posted 5/24/2007 2:36:22 AM |

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It's finally happening, I get five whole days away from the room mate/house mate...it's a strange life style I stupidly agreed to, being married to her in the past and failed....but we have remained friends.

We entered into an odd business arrangement to buy a house as a future investment, but it has turned sour(like that's unusual).
So now I will be in a house from the 31st of May until june 5th.

I'm not a partyer, so that doesn't work....
I don't have many single frieds, so I can't ask them over either.

And the biggest problem is that I don't have anybody close that I would love to stay over, not even a friend with benefits.

What am I supposed to do with these five days I wonder....pull weeds?

I guess I am looking for answers...any ladies in my area care to spend some time with me?

I am obviously in bad shape, or I wouldn't need AMD to help me find answers to such a relatively simple problem.

It's not the free time that bothers me, it's what I should be doing that does.

I wouldn't mind a one nighter, but I really prefer something along the lines of long term...if that's even in the vocabulary of modern women.

Why should I worry, I can always spend the week going hiking up north, or camping, but I hate having to do everything alone.

I think this is more of a rant than a blog, don't you agree?

Arizona sure does appear to be quite dry when it comes to women looking for 'something' extra, no matter what that 'something' might be.

Two years and I'm still looking....WTF?

AMD is starting to appear to be just like the other meat markets.....someone's always looking for Mr. Wealthy and not Mr. Right, and certainly NOT Mr. Right now!

I'll give AMD another month and see what transpires....if still nothing, I'll resign and move on to other sites, and keep looking until I find the one that does actually have women that aren't scared to say HELLO in person.

I need the human touch like anybody else, but AMD is not making the cut so far.

I keep trying to find someone, but nothing works.

Maybe I should use something more obscene in my descriptions perhaps?

I'll see what happens over these five days.....but so far, nothing is looking too promising regardless.

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max49

May 24 @ 6:41AM

You make it sound like AMD is the end of the line and you are scrapping the bottom of the barrel trying to find someone here. How's that workin for ya? Not very well I would assume. There are a lot of very nice women here and I'm pretty sure that I have seen some in Arizona. Maybe if you would change your attitude a little and seem a little less cold you would get farther with the women. Good luck to you.

Ewe_Wish

May 24 @ 9:40AM

Well im sure this is going to piss someone off but you posted a blog and i get to respond:
Not trying to knock your profile but maybe adding a picture with a smile.

Ok about your blog:
AMD is not the last chance place. No where on the site does it say if you cant get it anywhere else lower your standards and come here.

WHen a doctor tells a person that they need to lose weight and they must do this by dieting and exercising. And that person goes home and only diets or only exercises yes they can have results but not the total results that was needed. AMD is dieting and The outside world is your exercise. Meaning you cant count on either one as a definite way to get a result but you want to do both. Yes we have seen couples get together here for the happy ever after, I am betting that there are alot more than dont come online and say we met on AMD. My point is if a person hangs around all day long on the computer looking for someone they maybe missing the person who lives in thier neighborhood, shops at thier grocery store ect. and if they never check AMD they might miss that same person.

My grandma told me once not to put all my eggs in a basket and yes there are some days i do spend all day on the computer and there are some days im not home at all.

There are other places to add to finding the one your looking for beside AMD tho to be honest if your just looking for sex this is probably where you want to stay or at the local bar once in a while lol

Take a community class in something that interests you
Go to the specialty stores that sell the equipment to go with your interest
GO to book stores and or the library
Either join a group (club) that interests you or start one in your area if there isnt one.

ANd than when you have completed any or all of those things make sure you come back to AMD and check your mail box, read the blogs and forums and join the fun.

Dont ever count on just one thing to get you what you want out of live check out and persue all avenues.

Just my 2 cents.

max49

May 24 @ 10:29AM

WOW!!! looking4funat45 is so wise and beautiful as well.

Ewe_Wish

May 24 @ 11:12AM

WOW!!! looking4funat45 is so wise and beautiful as well
oh Max that is so sweet

ynot7769

Nov 25 @ 8:54AM

I wouldn't mind a one nighter, but I really prefer something along the lines of long term...if that's even in the vocabulary of modern women.

well the forums are fun and usefull...meeting by blogging like THIS is out the window............i been here almost 2yrs and i just stumbled into HER but thinkin this is just a sex sight wouldn't have cut it for me /her /us either.........try a different approach.........

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