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posted 5/22/2007 7:46:10 PM |
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Okay, we all know that one persons pain may be another persons pleasure. So in your opinion, where do the lines draw between normal--kinky--freaky--and dom/sub sex?
If someone says they like someone a little kinky in bed and the next person says someone a little freaky.....What's the difference? And where do you seperate either of them from dom/sub? Is it just personal preference or are there actually places where each fits in and if you cross over the line it's going too far for some?

I had someone tell me that she does not do oral, AT ALL. She thinks it is gross and too far over the line.She said she only does normal sex. I was too shocked to ask her what exactly normal sex consists of..
So, I'm asking here......Opinions please

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sumdaysoon

May 22 @ 8:51PM  
two or more consenting adults must decide that...........my 2 cents.......
StraddleMyNose

May 22 @ 9:00PM  
It all depends on the people involved. To me freaky and kinky is almost everything expect the pain.
StraddleMyNose

May 22 @ 9:02PM  
Typo in my last comment. It should have read "except", not "expect".
wtxman

May 22 @ 9:08PM  
Nomal,no such thing!!! Whatever two or more consenting adults agree on is what it's all about.
casuallylooking

May 22 @ 9:30PM  
Big difference in a little misspelled word, Straddle.
Lisa46

May 22 @ 9:46PM  
some things really should remain private between two people or 3 people however many are in the bed at that time just my .02
casuallylooking

May 22 @ 10:02PM  
I am NOT asking what anyone does in bed or anywhere else. I don't care and don't want to know. Just when someone asks do you like normal, kinky or what? How does it break down to be an honest answer?
Maybe I worded it wrong. I am not trying to offend anyone or pry into anyones business.
I guess Straddle's reply pretty much answered the question, for the most part.
lintroller

May 22 @ 10:42PM  
Well, to an individual, "normal" is a relative term. Globally, there are definitions to distinguish "normal" sexual practices from the ones that are considered off the beaten path (and, naturally, prevalent right here at AMD). For instance, if you google the word "paraphilia," you'll get an idea.

But in practical terms, it's completely personal. To me, the idea of taking on the quintessential dominant or submissive role in intimacy just has no appeal; it doesn't sound fun, I hate pain, I hate inflicting pain. Obviously plenty of people feel very differently and find those roles to be very fulfilling and pleasurable.

The connotation of "kinky" suggests a willingness to depart from convention, while "freaky" in my mind means someone who is extremely sexual and, at a minimum, enjoys every aspect of "conventional" sexual activity and is possibly willing to test new boundaries as well. That's just what comes immediately to mind...
Bobby571

May 23 @ 12:21AM  
what ever you are comfortable with.
ladybootscooter

May 23 @ 12:55AM  
I was once told the difference was easy to distinguish........
Erotic is using a feather.
Kinky was using the whole damn chicken!
Natgoat

May 23 @ 2:22AM  
. . ! . .
* Using an Ostrich feather to tickle your Lover is not considered 'KINKY' . . .
'KINKY' . . is using _T h e W h o l e D a m n e d O s t r i c h_ . . . !!! *
ladybootscooter

May 23 @ 9:25AM  
Is there an echo in here???
ajay_t43

May 27 @ 1:40AM  
normal sex...missionary, maybe doggie style. foreplay is a must.

I feel like a sex-teacher :P. no, not really.

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