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Why are we so scared to actually meet?

posted 5/9/2007 5:42:43 PM |
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  Storme99

We spend alot of time on these sites, but when it comes down to meeting someone for some pure sexual fun, nobody wants to. Why? We talk the talk, post the pics, etc. But we don't want to make that final step.

What am I missing here? I am purely looking for people to have some adult fun with, but it aint happening. Help me out.

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wtxman

May 9 @ 5:51PM  
I've met several people,and in fact am meeting another at vegas next week.
funnygirl730

May 9 @ 5:58PM  
it does happen.i have ment 2 men that i hooked up with on a different site.we emailed exchanged pics and talked on the phone first and one still turned out to be nothing like he presented himself so people are scared to take a leap.
Daized688

May 9 @ 6:13PM  
Some of us have...taken the final step...and never regretted a minute of it
Ashinatrix

May 9 @ 6:33PM  
I have met several men through here.....I still see 4 on a regular basis
LJRite69

May 9 @ 6:43PM  
When I first came to this site, I lolly gagged for a bit,. watched, read, listened, didnt say much and only had few pictures and mostly of my face. Then I met someone on here (not in person) and he opened my eyes to some things and all my inhibitions were wiped out and now I am here, addicted, hopelessly enamored and for GODS sake F'ckn HORNY as hell, K but that doesnt count...LOL

Anyway, yes, why are we afraid, well I am not, and again it is a SEX site, so I think the expectations on the male species behalf a lil more than some of the ladies are willing to give up, considering the content of the site itself. Then go to Matchdoctor.com then, With that said, I am sure there are plenty of you that meet and things go good, but there will always be that nervousness, that feeling of what if he/ she doesnt like what they see and then it can get ugly!

But for the most part, it is fun and people here are like a community it seems to me and well, take it for what it is guess.

And NO, I havent met the ONE I speak in person EVER, but not for lack of trying, buts thats whole other blog.....hahaha
...Good luck and Happy Happy..........
maggiemae1969

May 9 @ 6:50PM  
I take the final step
SailorD108

May 9 @ 9:07PM  
I think the problem is, mate, that the odds are stacked against us men! If you ever see the figures for sites like this, there are normally at least 10 men for every woman, so the women - even the plain looking ones - can pick at their leisure from the cream of the crop, while the blokes have to fight it out amongst themselves for just a taste of the action. A bit like being in a night club, really! I've been on these kind of sites for about 6 months now, & I have met up with maybe 8 or 9 women in that time - but believe me, it's been bloody hard work!!
SailorD108

May 9 @ 9:08PM  
I think the problem is, mate, that the odds are stacked against us men! If you ever see the figures for sites like this, there are normally at least 10 men for every woman, so the women - even the plain looking ones - can pick at their leisure from the cream of the crop, while the blokes have to fight it out amongst themselves for just a taste of the action. A bit like being in a night club, really! I've been on these kind of sites for about 6 months now, & I have met up with maybe 8 or 9 women in that time - but believe me, it's been bloody hard work!!
SailorD108

May 9 @ 9:10PM  
The problem is, mate, that the odds are stacked against us men! If you ever see the figures for sites like this, there are normally at least 10 men for every woman, so the women - even the plain looking ones - can pick at their leisure from the cream of the crop, while us blokes have to fight it out amongst ourselves for just a taste of the action. A bit like being in a night club, really! I've been on these kind of sites for about 6 months now, & I have met up with maybe 8 or 9 women in that time - but believe me, it's been bloody hard work!!
LilGriz

May 9 @ 10:13PM  
I have yet to meet anyone from my area, but am still hoping.
belle1010

May 9 @ 11:35PM  
It does happen, just be patient. I've met several men from this site, and a few of them were purely for adult fun. I've been lucky enough to find more than that this time, i'm sure in the very near future my geographical location will be changing.
Looking4ever

May 10 @ 2:33AM  
Maybe it's just the people you are in touch with. Or maybe it's how you present yourself and what you are looking for/wanting. Perhaps you just need to give it a bit more time. Lots of possible reasons it isn't happening for you. But lots of us have met and found what we've been looking for (or weren't looking for anything and found what we never knew we were missing) right here.
QCMAN

May 10 @ 3:48AM  
Since I am a 'new' membr to this site, I can't speak for those that have been here a while.

I can say with honesty, that in A.F.F, women there are far from willing to meet, in fact, I'd say the proper word for it is simply this: scared.

For whatever the reason, very few take the next step.

I will do so in a heartbeat, but that's just me....I'm always willing to be 'the' gopher in these circumstances.

It's not always easy to meet new people when you live ina desert climate, and most don't like to travel outside in 100+ temps, but if the possibility exists for me to meet a nice lady, then I'm all for it!

QCMAN

May 10 @ 3:50AM  
Since I am a 'new' membr to this site, I can't speak for those that have been here a while.

I can say with honesty, that in A.F.F, women there are far from willing to meet, in fact, I'd say the proper word for it is simply this: scared.

For whatever the reason, very few take the next step.

I will do so in a heartbeat, but that's just me....I'm always willing to be 'the' gopher in these circumstances.

It's not always easy to meet new people when you live ina desert climate, and most don't like to travel outside in 100+ temps, but if the possibility exists for me to meet a nice lady, then I'm all for it!

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