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posted 5/8/2007 3:44:23 PM |
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I wonder why it's so hard to get a response from a woman you send a message to, even if it's a "no thanks" ?? I can imagine you women on here get plenty of guys hitting on you, but how long does it take to perform a little common courtesy? I truly don't understand it.

I answer every one of mine, even if it's from someone in China !!! Maybe we have become so callous and uncaring towards others that we don't believe a person deserves a response, but I hate the idea of that. Maybe after reading this if just one person does respond it will be worth writing this blog......

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May 8 @ 3:49PM  
Sometimes, I wonder the same thing. I know a lot of this is because I do not have a pic.

May 8 @ 3:51PM  
hey man most of the women on this site are fat, lesbians or just plain phoney, i know what you mean

May 8 @ 3:55PM  
I will NOT return emails that have clearly been cut & pasted, where someone doesn't introduce themselves, where someone types only one sentence, where someone only asks a question along the lines of, "wanna fuck", "how big are your tits".. and so forth. I only respond to emails where it looks like someone obviously put time and effort in to try and catch my attention.

May 8 @ 4:02PM  
To quote another on here "Jesus Christ in a sidecar" do none of you people ever read the blogs at all before you come and post something that you are so sure is a totally original concept or complaint??? So many men ask this same tired question over and over again! Free members are limited on the number of emails they can send in a day! Most women on here get an average of 30-75 per day, some get many many more! Now to read every single message much less answer them would turn into a full time job! Since most of us on here have to actually work for a, you guessed it, they don't have time to answer every single email!!! Don't take it personal, it probably isn't! Just be nice in the messages you send, don't send the "wanna fuck" or "wanna cam?" or the classic "I'm coming through_______ tonight and would love for us to get together and __________!!"

May 8 @ 4:13PM  
I figure if someone didn't take the time to read my profile to know whether or not they are what I am looking for then why should I take the time to respond.

May 8 @ 6:47PM  
I agree with you it's just common courtesy to say ..
"No thanks" or something ..
Do you read there profiles and see what they are looking for ?

I know I get men asking me for some sex and I have to tell them I am looking for a woman all the time ..
I don't think they read my profile because if they did they would see I am looking for a woman ...


May 8 @ 7:34PM  
well carzman I did not get an email but I will apologize for the female population that did and shunned you ......... and a kiss for ya ....

May 8 @ 7:36PM  
Because men can't take "no" for an answer! They come back and try to persuade you to change your mind. (They can't take a hint either)

May 8 @ 7:53PM  
Well I have heard it all now I guess. Everything from "I don't have time to answer them all," to "If they read my profile first they would know". Know what? That you are too lazy to say "no thanks" ??

I don't think it's a big stretch here to say no one is that pressed for time or get's that many responses to their profile to not be able to type a simple "no thanks". And if the other person comes back and hounds you is when you don't bother to answer again. And yes, I do realize it's an often blogged subject here so shouldn't that say something in itself?

I bet if everyone tried it, just being courteous that is, just for one day even, it would make a lot of other people happy and this site a little better perhaps ??

May 8 @ 8:20PM  
I am nice to everyone who messages me if they have read my profile and some who didn't bother but after the 100th person not bothering to read it, it gets old and I tend to not want to deal with another person who can't take a few minutes to read it. In all honesty they need to be polite and read it if they are interested. That is just curtious to the person they are messaging. Has nothing to do with being lazy, just curtious!!

May 8 @ 8:27PM  
You will get used to it, and become just like the women and not answer every email that doesn't interest you. If you got 35-75 emails a day from different people you would not answer half of them. It's different for men, we don't get much mail.

May 9 @ 12:56AM  
I don't think it's a big stretch here to say no one is that pressed for time or get's that many responses to their profile to not be able to type a simple "no thanks".

I do. Try being a woman on here and see how your inbox fares. It's really not fair to demand a response in that setting, especially since you're strangers and don't owe each other anything. "Cold-calling" interesting profiles may not be the most high-yield approach...

May 9 @ 5:38PM  
Hey, docvn, I'm fat, and you'd be DAMN lucky to have me!

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