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posted 5/7/2007 9:00:08 PM |
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So where to begin... My 17 year old brother is in a shitty mood. He bugs me, constantly, asking for "relationship advice". For starters, I haven't had a relationship that lasted longer than a round of sex. Not because of me, but because of the people I usually associate myself with. ONTO the problem. His girlfriend, nice girl, have been dating for 3 years now, friends for 4. He bitches to me because his girlfriend does absolutely everything for him, basically made him her life, etc etc. He seems to have neglected this great privilege. He has become mopey, he whines, jealous, unconfident etc, everything I believe would bring a girl down and turn her off. So she breaks up with him, he says its just a break, and so does she.

Stop reading this if its boring you, it just gets worse.

From what she tells me, she needs to get out and be herself, find herself again because she has been couped up with my dumbass brother for so long. She says she still wants to be with him and knows it, she just needs the time to go out and experience things because she is so young and has been in a serious relationship for so long, which my guess is other girlfriends and other guys. She met a guy at work and is attracted to him, etc etc, has thought about dating him, but does not consider it because she wants to be by herself at the moment. The way I see it, she is just doing what she needs to do (explore). Also that she is just keeping my brother while she tests out the water, and does whatever she does with this guy, and if things don't work out, she knows my brother will still be there. To add to it, this has coincidentally happened every summer for the past 2 years. But she has always come back to him, and they seem like they are stronger people, both individually and together.

I do not know what to tell him. I don't want to lie to him because he is my brother, and I hate to see him how he is. I have told him that I think she is just holding onto him to have something to fall back on if things do not work, or until she gets bored fucking him,(she doesn't seem like that kind of girl, but its what it looks like. And keep in mind this guy leaves in August for a long while, possibly for good.). I like to use the analogy,"You are dependable chocolate ice cream, she knows you will be there to comfort her, but she likes how rocky road is different and tastes differently than just plain chocolate."(not genius but hey, spur of the moment) I also told him he just needs to give her her space she needs and when she figures it out you go from there. She told me that if he gets his act together and stops being so whiney and have more confidence in himself, then things will work out. I feel so bad for my brother because this guy is a complete douche bag in so many ways. So.. Any advice as to what the hell I am suppose to tell him?

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