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posted 4/25/2007 3:06:37 AM |
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I have a question for all the men and women who use this site Can men and women truly find a common ground in opening up to each other and staying on the same page or are women and men always going to be at odds ends with each other? Which in turn fuels the statement of Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Thank you for your honesty in advance.

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Apr 25 @ 5:31AM  
although men and women will almost always see things differently i think common ground can be found we just have to agree to disagree.

Apr 25 @ 6:43AM  
Why can't men and women find common ground? some of my BEST friends are men. I know one guy who told me that men and women can never be friends b/c someone is always going to get hurt. One of them is going to fall in love with the other or want to sleep with the other or yadda yadda yadda.

But, I know 2 male friends I can think of off the top of my head who are great. There was a time when they both wanted to date me, we talked it out, and we're fine! Both drinkin buddies of course... but yeah.

Sorry, to make a long answer short.... yes.

Apr 25 @ 9:40AM  
I think that if you are both honest and upfront with what you both want its possible to meet on common grounds. What sometimes happens is people who say they dont want a relationship really do, or maybe they didnt until they met someone and thier feelings changed. and it can be the other way around too maybe they are looking for a relationship but when they get together one doesnt want it. The point is if both are honest with what they want and who they are than they can meet on common ground. For instance, My profile says i dont want a one night stand but if i met someone that i knew that we were probably not the right fit and both of us agreed to that but were still sexually attracted to each other than yea it might be a one night stand but it would be by mutual concent. Not everyone is looking for the same thing and until we are honest not only with ourselves of what we want but to the other person its not going to work and someone will walk away with hurt feelings.

Apr 25 @ 12:53PM  
Absolutely! One of my best friends for years and years was male. We went to school together from sixth grade up. We were thick as thieves, I was supposed to be in his wedding, but that is another story. Sex never came up between us, yet we constantly sought each other out for advise about our separate sex lives. He died in 92 and I was lost for awhile. He was the older brother I never had, but I was also the little sister who'd knock him upside the head when he did something stupid. We were each other's support system. Yes, it possible for men and women to find a common ground.

Apr 25 @ 1:41PM  
Wow what a deep topic on such a light-hearted day, umm, okay.

First off, the Book who's title you mention is a crock. And the myth that men and women are at odds is perpetuated by those who seek profit in gender stereotypes.

Men and women are not at odds, we have the same common goals, love, happiness, success, fulfillment, and contentment. To that end we must each as individuals seek out the person that best fulfills our needs (emotional and physical)

If you set out with an its us against them mentality, you already lost my friend.

Hope this was helpful, I didn't go get my glasses, so I don't look all smart and stuff right now.

Apr 25 @ 2:28PM  
personaly...I'm from Uranus!!!

Apr 25 @ 6:16PM  
My honey and I have had misunderstandings. However, it's the common ground we find that allows us to gloss over those misunderstandings and brings us back to how much we care about one another.
Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus sells books and makes money. Some things I've found to be true, but I don't think it means we can't get along and find common ground.

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