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posted 4/22/2007 7:35:45 PM |
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  thedude0156

I try to ask other ladies out but all i get is that i am not there type. Even just from my picture i am rejucted. What am i doing wrong?

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PrincessKissy

Apr 22 @ 7:38PM  
What picture would that be?
Ewe_Wish

Apr 22 @ 7:45PM  
well since you asked-- just because your not some womens type doesnt mean your rejected just means your not their type. As for being rejected from a photo well i dont see a photo first of all and second of all since most people dont look that much like their photo (due to hair style change, growed a beard or mustach or whatever) i dont see where any one would be rejected on that.

Now here is some suggestions take them or leave them makes no mind to me

go back into your essays and answer the question dont take the quick way as in ill answer a couple real quick so im online quicker to get laid. Im sure alot of women are like me and dont respond to people whose essays are not filled out.

Start blogging more (excluding the whine of no body likes me im so rejected) so women can get to know you

Post a pic everyone has at least one pic they look great in.

Give this time. Rome wasnt built in a day and neither is meeting someone whether its for a one night stand or a LTR.

And have fun!!! Thats what life is all about.
ShadowsAngel

Apr 22 @ 7:45PM  
And how about a sample of the types of things that you are emailing...
Dominus

Apr 22 @ 7:46PM  
See...

This...

Or this...

Or this...

Or this, too.

In fact...just reading a lot of what people have to say gives you a good idea of what they really want. You want easy sex? Go out to a bar and find drunk women. You want to find someone who really likes you for you? Then be prepared to make a stand over who you are.
bentan

Apr 22 @ 7:51PM  
Dude if you are getting replies at all you are probably in good shape. And as looking said ... expand on your essays.

thedude0156

Apr 22 @ 8:21PM  
i updated my pic and also the essay
Ewe_Wish

Apr 22 @ 8:29PM  
Very good. I read it and it gets my seal of approval (like my opinion matters LOL)
it will take probably about 36 hrs for your pics now come join the blogs and give us your opinions or start new blogs and btw WELCOME!!!!
DaveandVal

Apr 22 @ 9:12PM  
I agree with Looking4fun. Post some blogs, and read blogs. Comment often. Like she said, Rome wasn't built in a day. Get noticed, and you will find that patience is a virtue. She will find u my friend! Good luck buddy!! Dave
Dominus

Apr 22 @ 9:22PM  
Took a look at the new essays and I agree...big improvement to have a bit more in there. The pics aren't too important, but a woman likes to know who she is talking to. Honestly, you could look as ugly as a frog, but if you connect on a level of communication she'll view the frog as a prince.

Also, try writing out your blogs or essays on word processing software first, then copying and pasting the stuff you wrote onto the site. It's a great way to compose your thoughts and spell-check before you go public with it. And if you don't have word-processing software, you can always get some for free here.
Shawnisready

Apr 22 @ 9:48PM  
Be confident in what you write to women on here Dude. Even though this is a sex sight deffinately be proper with the ladies. After all they are ladies. I have spoken to a few women on here the past couple days and everyone of them I have talked to have truely been ladies. Not saying you have not treated them properly. Deffinately be confident though. This coming from a guy that should not have any confidence left in him lol. Just giving advice here please don't take the wrong way.
Shawnisready

Apr 22 @ 9:51PM  
Be confident in what you write to women on here Dude. Even though this is a sex sight deffinately be proper with the ladies. After all they are ladies. I have spoken to a few women on here the past couple days and everyone of them I have talked to have truely been ladies. Not saying you have not treated them properly. Deffinately be confident though. This coming from a guy that should not have any confidence left in him lol. Just giving advice here please don't take the wrong way.
hulkNpooh

Apr 22 @ 10:55PM  
let me put this gently....put a dam picture on your profile, put several pic's on your profile (i say several, cause some people like to use someone else's, by putting several, i guess it would mean it's you)...geeze..i have seen this so many times on here...what do you expect. I'm not usually mean, but, this gets old seeing this in the blogs several times a week...some people call it "THE WHINY BLOGS".
Sweetgal44

Apr 23 @ 12:22AM  
Picture??? What picture
bentan

Apr 23 @ 1:10AM  
Come on people, read the preceding comments before flaming. He has already taken steps based on previous advice to rectify the situation.
JJN4Fun

Apr 23 @ 1:30AM  
The pics aren't too important, but a woman likes to know who she is talking to.

I always have to add this part...Even if you don't post a pic here, it's good to have one available. Since a lot of us don't like giving out our email addresses, store some pics on photobucket or flicker that you can direct someone to. That keeps your email private and hers, until you're ready to move to that. ;)

That's it . Good luck, have fun, and whatever you do, be naughty!

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