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posted 4/21/2007 10:23:51 AM |
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  sundance64

Ok...not ALL the women. Just the ones who "don't belong here". The ones who don't like getting the 'wannafuck' emails, or seeing the dicpics in their mailbox, or getting im's from guys jacking off.

If they all left...what would you have left? I'm sure it would improve your chances of getting laid...cuz you'd only have women here who are looking for a quick fuck. Not that that's a bad thing...I'm not dissing anybody here who's looking for that. Really. But I've written blog after blog on this subject. I've asked the questions like "does anyone ever respond to the wannafuck emails or the i'msohornycumfuckme blogs. Only one person said she responds to them. The rest? Well...I can only go by the answers I've gotten so I'm not speaking for the entire female population on this site. The women who have responded to these questions are almost unanimous in that they do not like getting wannafuck emails. They ignore them or send a polite no thanks...or they tell the guy to fuck off and die. Whatever.

So...I say, if these guys think we don't belong here...lets just fucking leave!! See what they have left! The proportion of men to women is already about 20/1...do they really think they'll have better luck if they got rid of us?

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meandhim8184

Apr 21 @ 10:26AM  
I NEED TO FIND A SUGAR DADDY! I CAN'T LEAVE!!! LOL I'm kidding... but I agree

Lets see what kind of responses you get from THIS! :o)
Ewe_Wish

Apr 21 @ 10:35AM  
SUNNY your the tops!! Kudos to you.
sundance64

Apr 21 @ 10:39AM  
Oh...and lets not forget that roughly half of the women here are looking for other women. That cuts the guys chances drastically!
just4fun6369

Apr 21 @ 10:43AM  
DAMN!! I must be doing something wrong...I never get any mail like that.....what's wrong with me (sniff, sniff, pout).....hell when I get email I faint lol....Hell if your not here for some fun then what's the point....whether I get laid or not isn't the question it's making some new friends and have a great time.....as for the wanna fuck emails....that's what the delete button is for....don't be afraid to use it....if you can't at least say hi or something along those lines....don't bother....just my 2 cents
Argit01

Apr 21 @ 10:45AM  
Er I don't wanna fuck, so do I have to leave too?
Tingaling

Apr 21 @ 10:56AM  
Ha Ha Ironically I just got told yesterday that I don't belong here. That I should take my pic off of my profile. Oh well fuck that I'm stayin'
sundance64

Apr 21 @ 11:09AM  
Hell if your not here for some fun then what's the point...

That's all I'm here for...to have fun! To pass the time til I start my new job, keep in touch with friends...and of course fuck with my favorite trolls. It's amusing...but it gets annoying when I'm told I don't belong here if I'm not looking for sex. If I didn't belong here, the bear would've canceled my account. But no...what did he do? He asked me to stay!! Gave me free stuff just so I would stay!
As for the block/delete button? I only use that when/if someone gets abusive. Otherwise I just ignore...or send a polite no thanks.
And what alot of guys don't seem to get is that the women sometimes get up to 100 emails a day. Free members are only allowed to send 75 emails per day. So...if they responded to every single email with a 'hi' or 'no thanks'...that leaves them with no way to respond to the ones they're actually interested in. That's why most of the wannafuck emails are ignored.
mejestacool1

Apr 21 @ 11:18AM  
If all the women that don't wan't to recieve those kind of e mail's left
that would only leave the fun one's left ,
and make it easier for us guy's to know who they are.
so I'm up for that.
grndprx01

Apr 21 @ 11:48AM  
don't take this the wrong way. there is a site called match doctor and a number of others like that for normal people. this site is for us sex lunatics. which one do you want to belong to...
BigFlirt

Apr 21 @ 12:46PM  
Oh wait i see now since it says Adult Match Doctor SEX & Swinger Personals we are suppose to send wanna fuck e-mails? Well shit i been doing this all wrong. Please ladys and any ho's on the sight, so sorry i did not send you a wanna fuck e-mail. I will get right on it, so i will BELONG here....
Well If you ladys leave please let me know where. This place would be no fun then...
ponme

Apr 21 @ 1:05PM  
If all the women who wanna fuck but don't wanna fuck 'you' left... the guys would have fun talking to themselves for a lil while .. bitchin about how they can't get laid if they stuck themselves up a chicken's ass.
Sunshinegal35

Apr 21 @ 1:09PM  
Funny, but I met my current lover in Home Depot. And at the time I was looking for "fun". But had he approached with, "Hey, your tits are hot. Wanna fuck?" I wouldn't have given him a second thought. Fortunately, for me, he didn't approach me that way.
I think it's funny that some people think that AMD being a sex site gives them the right to abandon all form of common courtesy and respect.
Yeah, I'm on a sex site to have fun, but that doesn't give potential male lovers the right to treat me like a whore or second class citizen!
Although it is pretty funny watching them try.........
Xanadath

Apr 21 @ 1:20PM  
Women don't seem to respond to "hi, nice profile, I see we have a few interests in common..." type e-mails either- so what difference would it make if they stayed or left anyway?
Loveyoulongtime2

Apr 21 @ 1:58PM  
Everybody who likes it here should stay. I like the silly blogs, forums and some interesting people here. I'm not looking to find a woman anymore, already found one.
jlafave50

Apr 21 @ 2:22PM  
Well sex site or not,lets show a lil respect..it does state adult , so let try and be adults..ty joe
Teddybear4sex

Apr 21 @ 2:24PM  
Speaking only for myself I honestly do not understand anyone that comes here not looking for some sort of sexual fun. That said people on here should approach others just as they would in the real world. Talk nice, ask them to view your profile and let them see if they are interested or not.

The problem comes in when people think that EVERYONE on here is looking to jump right in bed because this is a sex site (read the name of the site before telling me it is not). But even a woman going out to a bar to maybe pick someone up is still going to need some attraction.

I try my best to be nice and respectful and still I get no replies from e-mails. I don't think it matters if you are nice or not honestly. But I do think you attract more flies with honey then verbal run off about what you want to do to the lady you are trying to get interested in you.
JJN4Fun

Apr 21 @ 2:38PM  
Speaking only for myself I honestly do not understand anyone that comes here not looking for some sort of sexual fun.

I guess I'd ask you to define "sexual fun". I write erotica...trust me, it IS sexual - and fun!

Look, several people here HAVE met someone already and are here for the other fun that this site offers...like interacting with the friends they've made while here. How many people are we expected to meet and fuck before we have to go? What if we don't get laid as a result of this site - is there a certain amount of time we have before we should go? I don't recall that this site has outlined any "rules" like that, making this a site for anyone who wants to be here - for any reason (well, except trolling, but that's a given.)

What about people who are just curious, exploring new ideas and lifestyles...learning? Should they go, too? Is this site ONLY for those who want to stay within the boundaries of the life they had upon joining? I can tell you, I have learned A LOT about things (sex related) that I had no clue about (egad! ) and I certainly feel I've grown from it.

Just my 45 cents. Again!
canuhelpme258

Apr 21 @ 2:44PM  
grndprx01 and Teddybear4sex

You see regardless of what each individual thinks this site is meant to be. It is what I turnmed it into. The regular MD is censored to the point of being draconian. It serves only as a net to catch single people, eventually they click the AMD link, most people on here that actually use this site in the proper way, meet someone for more than a romp in the bed, they stay because this place has become an uncensored myspace of sorts. THAT WAS MY VISION, and I'm finnaly going to stand up and take credit or blame.
See the site allows for both genders of all orientations to join, if I follow the logic that you have to be here to have sex with whoever the fuck e-mails you to its natural conclusion, then straight men have to have gay sex, gay men have to have straight sex and all sorts of pandimonium ensues.

Here's a tip "If you are here to cyber, try like a one legged man in a shit kicking contest to get laid with no effort, stay the fuck off the blogs, you will get chewed alive by the sharper minds up here at the top of the food chain"

Looking4ever

Apr 21 @ 2:51PM  
Women don't seem to respond to "hi, nice profile, I see we have a few interests in common..." type e-mails either- so what difference would it make if they stayed or left anyway?

Funny, I met my guy here and he started out with a 'nice' email. Perhaps they just haven't responded to YOU.

Well sex site or not,lets show a lil respect..it does state adult , so let try and be adults..ty joe

Smart man, that Joe.

The problem comes in when people think that EVERYONE on here is looking to jump right in bed because this is a sex site (read the name of the site before telling me it is not). But even a woman going out to a bar to maybe pick someone up is still going to need some attraction.

Yup. TeddyBear is a smart one too!

Tough shit. I'm staying...until the admins kick me off. You have a problem with me being here? Ignore me & my profile then.
shellsmack

Apr 21 @ 2:58PM  
They've got food here CANU?

This site is a delicious place for wonderful, sexual people. Just because we're here doesn't mean we're an easy fuck. There are intelligent, professional and warm hearted people here who, in their personal lives, love to get laid...and we connect here.

Great balls of slapping sex if you find your darling on this site, but we're not to be labeled for our interactions on a very sexual basis as male and female HO'S.

There are some very shallow invaders who come to this site thinking it's a fuck-for-all. Geez, this IS an "adult" site for fucking out loud.

canuhelpme258

Apr 21 @ 3:40PM  
I'mma address mejestacool1's comment after I restate the obvious to the guys whinbing about not getting ANY replies to their e-mails. No pic, gets little reply, dick pics, while you might like looking at your own cock, women don't give a shit what your willy looks like (learned that lesson while back) Imagine if you put a bag over your face, dropped you draws and walkwed into a bar. The guys would laugh gals turn their heads!

Now as far as leabing only the "fun" ones behind? LMAO most of the "fun female profiles" the ones who cyber anyone with or without any type of pic, are fucking guys you dopes! How does I know this, elementary my dear jackasses.
ladybootscooter

Apr 21 @ 3:42PM  
It would be a boring damn place Sunny!!
pinkntastey

Apr 21 @ 3:52PM  
well this is the wanna fuck part of MD, Those looking for sex with others. If your offended by some guy asking, then go to the other part of MD who are poeple looking for a b/f or g/f for something long term. I am under the impression that this is the sex portion of it. Now if you are seeking a sex partner and hopeing it could turn into more, then don't complain when some guy who has no manners what so ever asks you if you wanna fuck. If you are offended by some of the comments these asshole make, then go to the other part of MD. Personally , i am on both parts cause i want it all, but not from men. If i get comments from men, i just ignore it and consider the source
sundance64

Apr 21 @ 3:54PM  
Women don't seem to respond to "hi, nice profile, I see we have a few interests in common..." type e-mails either- so what difference would it make if they stayed or left anyway?

When I, personally, get an email that says something like this...I KNOW they haven't read my profile. I ignore them.

Truth be told...alot of women just don't respond to emails...period. I don't know why...I try to respond to the 'nice' ones, even if it isn't what they want to here. I just got one from someone complimenting my pics and saying I have a nice body and should show off more of it. Now, Canu thinks I should send him back a mean email saying I have more on Canu's profile. I'm not gonna do that...if I respond it'll be with a thanks but I'm not putting up any more pics...

If you want to get the attention of the ladies here, write funny blogs...play in the forums...put yourself out there. That's how the majority of the guys on this site have met women on this site.
sundance64

Apr 21 @ 4:09PM  
Ok...let me spell it out again:

A) Wannafuck emails don't work. MOST of the women on this site either ignore them or respond negatively to them. (negatively meaning no thanks or fuck off)

B) When guys don't get the response to these and post a blog instead, that doesn't work either. It just gives the women a chance to see the whiners on the front page.

C) I have a profile on MD...the guys over there aren't much better. They still don't take 'no thanks' for an answer...they still get rude, just don't use the language that they use here. And they still don't read profiles. I like this site because I can say what I want and most people don't get offended. I don't like the other site cuz..well, it's boring.

D) Every person here has as much right to be here as anyone else. The problem I have is when I KNOW this site works...and it can work for everyone...but there are still people whining about not getting laid. When I or anyone else tries to give advise on how to meet people...the whiners get pissed and either block us or leave.

bentan

Apr 21 @ 4:15PM  
Truth be told...alot of women just don't respond to emails...period. I don't know why...I try to respond to the 'nice' ones, even if it isn't what they want to here. I just got one from someone complimenting my pics and saying I have a nice body and should show off more of it. Now, Canu thinks I should send him back a mean email saying I have more on Canu's profile. I'm not gonna do that...if I respond it'll be with a thanks but I'm not putting up any more pics...

You know I don't often express adulation for fear of getting into the whole rah-rah cheer-leading thing but I gotta say of all the things I hear from ladies on here this is pretty much the most reasonable. Ladies, I gotta tell you: this is the Real McCoy. Learn from her.

Quite the polar opposite to that "jaspercouple" female who bashes all men for showing dic pics, while herself showing a tit pic, and furthermore does not allow comments (not sure whether just for men or for everyone). Some days I just feel like taking a sledgehammer to dumbfucking unreasonable low-lives.
JJN4Fun

Apr 21 @ 4:39PM  
well this is the wanna fuck part of MD, Those looking for sex with others.

I think if that were true there wouldn't be blogs and forums here for fun and interaction. There'd be no need for friends lists, comment approval settings...hell, there wouldn't even be a need for chat here. Just profiles, email, and a search tool - like back when dating sites of any kind were limited to looking up and emailing people.

AMD wants us to blog, to comment, and to discuss topics in forums. They want us to form relationships - because they know that keeps a lot of us here and active, and that's what brings in the new folks. What did I say in my "popularity rocks" blog about AMD enterprising on the fact that my blogs got so many hits? And what did I hear? "They are!" Of course they are, duh - enterprising on everyone who participates! Have ya seen the main page??? THEY don't care why someone is here; the only care that we ARE. So...what's the problem?
dumblonde

Apr 21 @ 5:40PM  
haha..i just realized that it was changed from adult site to SEX site, i cant keep up with what i am supposed to be offering....

anyways, i think it is a bit misleading to men who read and believe what they want to where it says..."100% free sex and swinger personals"...it should say "100% free personals for sex and swingers"...i think men read..."100% free sex" and stop there....sex is rarely free....there is usually an exchange of some sort...
jezzarae

Apr 21 @ 6:27PM  
Well written Sunny. i have been told multiple times I dont belong on this site because I am not looking for a fuck buddy or a serious relationship. When I first joined the site I actually was looking for something other than friendship but 'wanna fuck ' emails and give me your telephone number emails grew old very quickly.
No way am I giving any stranger my phone number or address, seriously if a guy walked up in the street and asked for either who would actually give it out so why do they think email is different?
Yes I think if all the women who are not seriously looking for sex relationships etc, decided to leave the site it would be a very sad thing for the remaining guys. Sure there would be women left but with the odds narrowed more do the guys seriously think they will do any better and they just may find they lost the opportunity to make some really nice friends on here.
Arent the best relationships started by making friends first? Seems too many guys on here forget that fact and some women too. It doesnt hurt to answer the decent emails even if it is to say sorry just dont have time, interest, whatever but the rude emails get just what they deserve ignoring.
aimeejo928

Apr 21 @ 6:31PM  
My hubby would be your sugar daddy,but he is a freak in bed.I guarantee you that you will never orgasm that way again.
sundance64

Apr 21 @ 6:41PM  
OMG...did she just use muh blog ta proposition someone?? LMAO!!!
Natgoat

Apr 21 @ 6:50PM  
Cut that percentage about 4 MORE times...!!!
What % of women.... are looking for ANYthing but a _Serious Relationship_...???
***...Disqualify men that Smoke...??
***...Are _Very_ adamant about their 'Age Parameters'...??
***...are _ONLY_ here for the Blogs/Forums...??
***...Have Very specific acceptable Distance...??
What do the numbers show, NOW...???
kozmik_wave

Apr 21 @ 7:25PM  
I guess the women that send the wanna fuck emails will stay...that's cool with me, as far as complaining? No way...I have nothing to complain about, between here and another site my calendar is filling up fast! Gonna have to start blacking out weekends that I want for local fun...don't get me wrong, I'm picky and know how to say no...but there are so many women here that just want no strings and sometimes anonymous sex that it's actually pretty easy to be picky and still have a full calendar. I don't go out with complainers...so if they all leave it narrows the field to a more enjoyable bunch! Whatever happens, I'll be just fine
sundance64

Apr 21 @ 7:49PM  
Ya know...I wish more of those women would respond to these blogs, so the guys would know who to look for when they go to send out the wanna fuck emails.

Oh...and don't bother asking Kozmik what his secrets are. I already asked him to share it with ya'll but he won't!
kozmik_wave

Apr 21 @ 8:10PM  
I guess alot of people don't read blogs at all...it was 6 months after I joined this site before I even read one. One clue, I haven't met anyone through the blogs...yet
tlc0766

Apr 21 @ 8:14PM  
who knows sunny maybe one of these days they'll grow up but I doubt it as all new members come in drooling and thinking adult means they can be crude and nasty. Hey I'm not on here looking for a lifemate or a soulmate, I just wanna have some fun but I still won't respond to crudity.
bigbone632

Apr 21 @ 8:25PM  
Well said Sundance! We have recieved numerous wannafuck emails. Mostly from guys who wanna fuck my girl! Kinda pisses me off in a way. When the girls send messages to us, they want Val but not me. WTF!!!! Don't people read essays?
JJN4Fun

Apr 21 @ 9:13PM  
Arent the best relationships started by making friends first?

I think so, but I think the point is they don't want relationships, just sex. The ones who are willing to consider something more than just sex - or something that lasts more than a date or two - do take the time. I know the man I met here did. MANY emails between us before we met, and no, we didn't have sex on the 1st date. Though the relationship was based on adult activities, it never could be that way without us having talked - not just at first but throughout the relationship.

Has talking become old-fashioned?
canuhelpme258

Apr 21 @ 9:29PM  
Uh oh no sex on the first date? Oooops I know a couple of crazy kids on here that sorta maybe made SEX the entire date (weekend long date at that)

JJ, conversation has sadly become a lost art. In today's fuck up computer lingo (lol, iso blahblahblah) world people are forgetting how to express thenselves. Everything is quick and easy, fast food, Jiffy lube, same day dry cleaning.. so why shouldn't sex be as easy to obtain? I'll answer if you don't mind.
Regardless if its a one time no strings fling, or from the heart, its personal. Real personal. In fact its as personal as two people can get. If your missonary holding hand and kissing, or doggie style making monkey noises its still the most personal thing two people can share.

As for the hullabaloo over this blog, I make the motion (second it, pass it, motion carried it's unanimous) that I become the official complaint department for the people bitching, about blogs that are bitchin... easpecially when the women vent over the stoopid fucking males. If they don't vent they unsubb, that would piss Da Bear off, and I couldn't post Jesus H Fucking Christ in a Goddamned side car too many other places, so we keep the site alive!

Got that I'm the complaint department!
ladybootscooter

Apr 21 @ 9:30PM  
Sonny I'm sorry but I was in a hurry earlier and didn't read all the previous statements close enough, true it would be a damn boring place if many of us left, but I have some comments to mejestacool1 and grandprx01, you both have made statements that maybe the women that don't want to receive those types of emails should just leave and go somewhere "normal". I take great offense to that!! First of all, I've been here for 7 years where the hell have either of you been? Not here. Second, I am a PAYING MEMBER I can't help but notice that neither of you are, so come on if you want to bitch about the women on here not wanting to fuck you at the drop of your drawers maybe you should pay up bitches!!! Granted there are "normal" sites and there are more openminded ones such as this one, so maybe if you're both so unhappy then you should consider going someplace else!!!
PrincessKissy

Apr 22 @ 9:48AM  
Yep, been told I don't belong here either, so I guess we all should leave and who'd be left? The members that don't sign on for 3 months at a time? It would be a TOTAL sausage fest on here, with about the intelligence level of a sausage if all of us that "don't belong" here left!
Thick8forUn04

Apr 24 @ 11:03PM  
myself,i would rather have a steady friend for fun,no strings,just say,dinner,movie,or whatever we decide to do,and adult fun
mrunderstood

Apr 26 @ 11:22AM  
I don't mind being rejected! I DO mind it if it's insulting! Women can be polite about it. Not all guys are pervs and want sex right away! One thing I pride myself on is politeness, respect and honesty! If you don't want my friendship or conversation, fine! Just be nice about it!
Lzrdkng

Apr 29 @ 4:31AM  
Guys indeed can be rude, disrespectful, and pushy. However, not all men are. I do find it rude when a woman does not reply to an email which is sent in good taste. I reply to all emails even if it is to say thanks, but no thank you.

And I have gotten "wannafuck" emails from women. Many men will sleep with anyone given the chance. Sex is easy, but chemistry is what makes it sensual. I don't hop into bed with just anyone. It amazes me how many women have invited me to their homes for a sexual encounter without meeting in public first.

Lastly, there are the prostitutes on sites who try to hustle you. I am not judgemental but be straight forward if you are seeking cash for ass!

To all the polite and honest women out there, you have my utmost respect!
heywhynot

Apr 30 @ 1:13PM  
Awww miss sundance, not all us men lead off with those comments or post dick pictures as our 1st photo...there are some good men on here that happen to be single, looking for a good girl with a wild side, now i am not sayin i am not open to a casual encounter, but i do prefer something long term with the right lady...And from a mans view, try sending out emails and only getting back links to other sites... not fun either

UPS guy
sexybabe7777

May 7 @ 1:10PM  
HAHA!! Very well said.... maybe the guys should all wise up and ask themselves how their tactics are working. If the comefuckme blogs/emails ARENT working.....maybe its time for a different approach.

Oh wait..but that would mean theyd be thinking with the head on their shoulders again. We cant have that now can we?

Hmmm maybe we should just get rid of all the men who send comefuckme emails.

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