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posted 4/16/2007 12:36:51 PM |
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Ok I have actually gotten a few emails commenting on the fact I am married. This is a swingers site right? My wife thought so when she pointed me this way. With this fact in mind I ask once again, why do women post a profile on a swingers site then refuse to even say "not interested when you e-mail them? I feel like they are telling me "your not worth even a few key strokes".

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Apr 16 @ 12:55PM  
No, this isn't a swingers site.... its an adult dating site... if you noticed, when you do a search, you can't put in "couple looking for couple" just "male for female" or "female for female" or whatever....

But hell, its free... I'm on here for the same reason... my bf and I are looking for a young couple in the area - I figured, what the hell, its a free site, I'll use it for whatever I want! Haha

But on the whole "reply" thing... Honestly, I don't reply to everyone... first of all, I get a lot of emails, and sometimes the people live 1000 miles away, thats just a waste of time emailing me in the first place... and sometimes (no offense on age, I didn't look at yours) they're 50 or 60 years old... my profile specifially says under 37 or something like that, so obviously you don't give a shit about me and didn't read my preferences... so if that person can't take 2 secs to ready over my profile, I don't need to take 2 secs to give them a "no thanks"

Does that make sense?

Apr 16 @ 1:48PM  
Today must be my day to hand out clues...

This isn't *just* a swinger's site. It's a site for "normal" heterosexuals, swingers, gays. bi-sexuals, BD/SM folks, etc... There are also the married men who come here specifically so that they CAN cheat on their wives.

That means that not every woman that you email is going to be even remotely interested in a married man. It also means that we have no way of knowing whether you and your wife are swingers or if you are simply a man honest enough to say that he's cheating on his wife. That question alone is going to spike the guns of almost any woman here because NONE of us wants to find ourselves enmeshed in the middle of a divorce!

MY policy when I was looking with regards to married men... Have your wife email me... have her call me... let HER confirm for me that you aren't cheating but rather have an open relationship. I know that sounds harsh... but after 15 years IN the lifestyle I might accidently have been around more than a few relationships where he was perfectly happy with the "status quo" and SHE was miserable than the average person.

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