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posted 4/13/2007 11:03:46 AM |
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  totallytaboo

I love the emails that I get that go around the lines of... "love yur pix so wot r u in2???im in2 anything really" ... I actually took the time to email this guy back clearly stating that I'm interested in someone who spoke English, and then was fair enough to say that our interests don't match. How nice I was!

He responds with the classic something like this "HA HA THATS FUNNY BECAUSE I USED TO TEACH HISTORY AND ENGLISH..SO AS YOU CAN SEE I'M WELL ABLE TO CONVERSE IN THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE AND WOULD DEFINITELY FAR OUT WEIGH YOU GRAMMATICALLY...ANYWAY IT WAS NOT VERY NICE TALKING TO YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY A SAD COW WITH NO MAN....BYEEEEE"...

Well, aren't we blessed to have so many teachers among us! Especially ones that don't understand how to use punctuation.

It's always men too that don't have pictures on their profile that find retaliation necessary. Why is that? The anonymity gives them the balls they wouldn't otherwise have?





So, here is my question. What do you do when someone clearly finds in interest in you and you do not have one in them? Are you nice and allow them to pursue you? OR, do you tell them "no" flat out and hope their emails stop. I've been getting a few emails from a particular gentleman, and IM attempts every time I log on. He clearly asks me "u not interested??" or something like that, and I just wonder if he hasn't caught on. It's been a few weeks this has gone on and I swore I blocked him once, but yet his emails still come. I'm a little stuck on what I should do!

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Pudge2you

Apr 13 @ 11:09AM  
Have you tried "RAID" I hear it "kills bugs dead".
featherone

Apr 13 @ 11:09AM  
block him, if that dont work u see his email, dont read it just delete it :)
featherone

Apr 13 @ 11:11AM  
lmao@ pudge
ynot7769

Apr 13 @ 11:12AM  
are you interested n i'm not?? well hell i just say so...''hi ..thanks...not interested...good luck to ya''

the first time....not sure how many b4 i hit the block button or become rude...never seems to take more then once......but this.....

Well, aren't we blessed to have so many teachers among us! Especially ones that don't understand how to use punctuation.

show's why the kids are doomed and most younger people can't hardly read or write...shit i had fonix as a kid in NYC in the 60s so as alot of us my spelling sucks...but i read exceptionaly well wich i might add saved my ass in school.......
DoIDetectAHIntOfTuna

Apr 13 @ 11:36AM  
LOL He sounds like one of those guys who doesn't have much luck with using the dating sites to meet people. I say cut him some slack. He's got some massive blue balls to contend with.
miltonbiker

Apr 13 @ 11:52AM  
sounds like an obsessive behavior to me....i'd block him, do what i could to keep away. what else can ya do?
northwoods43

Apr 13 @ 12:15PM  
Not having a pic posted (for my own reasons), I guess I fall into that category of anonymity. When I mail someone and get no response I just figure they are getting alot of mail here from men who do have pics posted so I am in no way even a low priority for them. I do wish they would just say "thanks but no thanks". I would never bother them again. Also when I send an initial e-mail I will explain why I do not have any pics posted and that I would be happy to e-mail them some. I know there are paople here who will not take "no" for an answer and that is too bad.
weylinalastair

Apr 13 @ 12:18PM  
Most men deal in absolutes. So usually, a simple "no...sorry" works. If he continues after that, block him and contact the system admin.
*sighs* Such males give the rest of us actual gentlemen a really bad name. I am sorry that you seem to be dealing with this particularly special individual.
Tell ya what, send him a pic of me, tell him I am your boyfriend and will find him and kick his ass if he continues...That'll work! lol
wtxman

Apr 13 @ 12:48PM  
no comprende englaze
Dominus

Apr 13 @ 1:46PM  
I'd like to know why:

1.) Whenever someone is told that the type of language they are using isn't what you're into (like L33T / IM speak) that they bring up the fact that they have a degree in history.

2.) Someone who used to teach English doesn't know that "outweigh" is a single word.

The problem is there is no happy result when dealing with an asshole. If you write back and say you're not interested, they complain. If you don't write back and just ignore them they complain. If you block them they complain.

As far as what should you do? You should approach it however you feel is best, because if someone is an asshole you're not going to make them happy no matter what you do. And perhaps a better question is, why would you want to give an asshole any satisfaction whatsoever?
Sunshinegal35

Apr 13 @ 3:43PM  
I always write back to him, thank him for the email, tell him I'm not interested and good luck with his search. Then I hit BLOCK just to ward off any unwanted remarks!
Rikosound

Apr 13 @ 6:25PM  
I Gave You a Kudos because you are absolutely right on babe! Or should I have said I GV U a kds cuz U R Like So On It! let's you and me break out the ropes and heels and leather and have some real fun!

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