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posted 4/12/2007 12:01:44 AM |
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Maybe women are just prone to want to hear that they're pretty, or just need that validation from men.. but seriously. I'm so digusted how some women can use awful situations as a way to reach out to the general population of bloggers just to hear the "oh yea, so hot, I'd fuck ya" ... Lol, even worse is when women can come from the left trying to put themselves in the limelight by being vain, but a sentence later in their blog, tear themselves down again just for the reaffirmation that they are hot. It's clearly not insecurity as they use a paragraph or two to hype themselves up, maybe it's just an addiction. Addicts for having men adore them.


It's witchery, trickery, tomfoolery... but it works. If women were made to be manipulative, why haven't I caught on?????

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sumdaysoon

Apr 12 @ 12:09AM  
because you are so hot...... sorry i could not resist........i hear what you are saying.......
weylinalastair

Apr 12 @ 12:09AM  
Because you have a brain and a personality! lol!
mark069

Apr 12 @ 12:20AM  
I don't know but isn't that part of some women's personality? Liking to be queen or center of attention? It's just like some men have to be "the leader" all the time or they have to "win at all costs"....
spikespeagle06

Apr 12 @ 12:39AM  
i've met a lot of women who need some reassurance of selfworth. Unfortunately, getting selfworth by recieveing compliments over the internet is like eating ramen, it'll give you a fix for now, but you've gotta keep eating more and more to stave off the hunger, and that stuff's really bad for you.
so what i'm trying to say is, maybe their feelings aren't stable enough to be consistent.
casuallylooking

Apr 12 @ 12:43AM  
There is nothing wrong with enjoying a compliment. But if you have to go fishing for it,then it's a forced thing and that doesn't really count, in my opinion.

Is it part of a womans personality to like being queen? I can't speak for other women, but for myself, No. I like to be treated nicely and with respect, but I give the same in return. I'm not going to say I don't like being a little spoiled at times, but who doesn't male or female? And I like to spoil right back. And by spoiling I don't necessarily mean anything having to do with money.
ynot7769

Apr 12 @ 12:55AM  
It's witchery, trickery, tomfoolery... but it works. If women were made to be manipulative, why haven't I caught on?????


well helll sxy.........stick around there's plenty of time to learn all that shit........personaly 'm hopin ya stay the way ya are but...........i'll just kick back n watch n see how things develope
Dominus

Apr 12 @ 2:41AM  
Women aren't made to be manipulative. They live in a society where they are told that they are powerless in politics, business, and technology. They are made to feel inadequate sexually, sensually, and emotionally.

Becoming manipulative is an outgrowth of their desperation to exercise control in a world where they have none.

However, of they were to simply use the power that is theirs naturally they would rapidly find equality.

Whenever a woman asks me about feminism, I ask them if they have read any of the philosophies of Mahatma Ghandi (of India) or Stephen Biko (of South Africa) because both men have something in common that women need to learn.

No one can give you your freedom. You have to take it for yourself.
Ewe_Wish

Apr 12 @ 6:14AM  
Thank you Dom.
LadieDarkStarr

Apr 12 @ 7:32AM  
Dom, you're my God. LoL Always with the logic!!!

I believe that everyone is manipulative in their own right. Everyone knows how to get what they want/need. It's just a matter of how willing they are to carry out that action.
laughem4

Apr 12 @ 10:12AM  
I think some women that do that for the simple fact that they can. They know guys will kiss their ass and say how hot they are even if their not. Maybe it is an addiction, or maybe they just need to get overthemselves. We all know beauty wears off quick in a relationship. Inner beauty is what will make any type of relationship, or friendship last.
funnygirl730

Apr 12 @ 11:40AM  
i think it is insecurity.just because you say things about yourself doesn't mean you believe them.i believe everyone wants and needs to hear they are attractive to other people.
Dominus

Apr 12 @ 12:05PM  
I think some women that do that for the simple fact that they can. They know guys will kiss their ass and say how hot they are even if their not. Maybe it is an addiction, or maybe they just need to get overthemselves. We all know beauty wears off quick in a relationship. Inner beauty is what will make any type of relationship, or friendship last.

This is partially correct. Anyone who knows about dominant/submissive relationships knows that the submissive is the one who's ultimately in control of the relationship. They frequently make active decisions such as "let me misbehave because I want to be punished."

That, in and of itself, is a sexual rush. The submissive is pushing the dominant's buttons, in essence, controlling the controller.

I'll concede that some women become manipulative just so they can feel the power of being able to control their male controllers. But then, that's linked back to what I said before anyway.
Cple4bigafem

Apr 12 @ 1:18PM  
Yeah I hate when lil whores do shit like that!! lmao


I agree with ya though!!

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