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posted 4/11/2007 9:05:04 AM |
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  sabre56

Why don't people reply to e-mails?? If your not interested, a thanks but no thanks would be enough. Is that asking too much?

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PrincessKissy

Apr 11 @ 9:09AM  
A lot of women simply aren't interested in being confronted with a penis when they open an email. Also, there are only so many emails allowed to free members, and many women prefer to save those to use with men they are interested in. If we used them up on all the men we weren't interested in, we wouldn't have much left to use for those we are.
letmepleaseu146

Apr 11 @ 9:19AM  
Maybe you are e-mailing woman who are not looking for a man ?
Did you read there profile ..

I know some men e-mail me and my profile is asking for woman only ..
Ewe_Wish

Apr 11 @ 9:23AM  
In writing emails, do you make sure that there is stuff you have in common? Are you close enough to make contact if you two hit it off? Do you write emails that would capture Her attention? ( wanna fuck, wanna cam, wanna suck this) are not considered, at least in my opinion, ones i would even consider answering. Have you bothered to look at her profile and essay, maybe read her blogs or forums, if she has any to see if this is someone you might really be interested in getting to know. or do you just skim thru the profiles look at pics and email them. Have you considered more than one or two words on your essay. Yes this is a sex site but most people want to know a little bit more about you than just you are looking for sex. Isnt that why we have bars? post in the forums and blogs so people get to know you a little bit better and maybe you will get more responses. And btw my not answering an email is my way of saying No Thank You.

good luck with your search.
sabre56

Apr 11 @ 9:28AM  
Yes, I do read the profiles. I respond to women who I think share the same interests. I do appreciate the comments.
Slowman200

Apr 11 @ 9:33AM  
Yes, your right. A lot of phony women on these sites.
ynot7769

Apr 11 @ 9:58AM  
maybe from a mans perspective? you MIGHT consider more to your esssay.....join conversations in the forums not just there local but all over ya just NEVER know who you might meet or how far one of you might find your willing to travell......and i'm ASSUMING your emails are of substance...oh..there are fakes on here...we just all have to deal with em' and you ONLY get 75 emails if your a free member .....soo since women get TONS of mail daily ...they're a bit more selective as someone pointed out bout who they reply to....hope this helps.....need more info ? ask.
ShadowsAngel

Apr 11 @ 10:22AM  
I'm as real as a heart attack. I also don't answer emails from men whose only pics are of their penis. Sorry but just like there is more to ME than my tits and my ass there is more to YOU than your dick.

I don't care about your dick, I don't care about your wallet, I don't care about most of your body... if you appear to be one of the multitude of men who can't tickle both sides of my brain i'm plain not interested and won't reply. That's just the way that it is.

Yep, this is a sex site... that doesn't mean that every person here is looking to get laid.
max49

Apr 11 @ 10:39AM  
Well Slowman that's your opinion and you are welcome to it but I find the women here very friendly. Just like was stated by looking4funat45 if an email is just something like wanna fuck, wanna cam, or do you wanna suck my dick then it's not worth responding to.
tetons

Apr 11 @ 11:04AM  
i agree with everything above. the only thing your photo shows is that you are right handed.
sabre56

Apr 11 @ 11:05AM  
Due to the nature of this site. Some people (me) can't poat a face shot.

As for the essay I admit I was messing around with that and can use some advice on it.
miltonbiker

Apr 11 @ 11:08AM  
check your mail- your pics suggest just a sexual thing, and though this site is based in that, most people want a few things in common 1st
acworth

Apr 11 @ 12:34PM  
how many e-mails do free members get?
sabre56

Apr 11 @ 12:45PM  
I don't know. Today was the first I heard about it!!
bentan

Apr 11 @ 1:05PM  
Even after composing the most lovely initial essay to someone you might still not even elicit the most basic of form responses ... seemingly mind-boggling I know ... but as pointed out before several things work against this happening: 75-email limit for free members, severe load of messages the ladies have to handle etc. If it makes you feel any better, think of the initial mail as a resume you wrote and sent out to a company in hopes of getting an interview in a period of high unemployment.

If you are willing to do more work: I recommend playing in the forums, chatroom, posting to blogs, posting your own blogs so that people can get to know you first. If people get to know and like you they might even send you messages for a change. As with seeking a job, it pays to network. Good luck!
sabre56

Apr 11 @ 1:09PM  
Thanks bentan. Appreciate the input!!
funnygirl730

Apr 11 @ 1:48PM  
i don't bother to reply to emails from people i am not interested in because i figure they know if i was interested i would write back.
joltman20

Apr 11 @ 2:20PM  
Just try reading Profiles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
zena343

Apr 11 @ 3:19PM  
Just so you know its 100 free emails Ben. I hear alot of people saying 75 but it is 100.

Zena
Looking4ever

Apr 11 @ 6:41PM  
You state you can't post a face shot...cool...but that doesn't not man you are limited to a dick pic. I don't have a face shot either (by choice) but I don't have my crotch out here either.
Ewe_Wish

Apr 11 @ 6:59PM  
It would also be nice if AMD offered the quick reply that....well another site offers. It has quick replys such as thanks but not interest, you play to rough for me, i am only interested in single men (women), i am looking for local meetings and so on. Than it would be easier for us to respond to all the emails. NOT that i know about that other site.....ummmmm must have read it somewhere.
sabre56

Apr 11 @ 11:17PM  
Read above. I do!!!
bentan

Apr 12 @ 2:22AM  
Just so you know its 100 free emails Ben. I hear alot of people saying 75 but it is 100.

Ah thanks Zena ... I'm pretty out of touch here since it does not affect me ... lol. Straddle was pretty much the only guy I have known who exceed his limit. :)
totallytaboo

Apr 12 @ 11:58AM  
looking4funat45

16 hrs 58 mins ago
It would also be nice if AMD offered the quick reply that....well another site offers. It has quick replys such as thanks but not interest, you play to rough for me, i am only interested in single men (women), i am looking for local meetings and so on. Than it would be easier for us to respond to all the emails. NOT that i know about that other site.....ummmmm must have read it somewhere

It does! It offers "predefined responses" you just have to scroll down in your browser to see it, it's been there for a while!

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